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<blockquote data-quote="tiredmommy" data-source="post: 323972" data-attributes="member: 1722"><p>Thank you again for all the support, I truly appreciate it. I think this is the only place I can come where I talk freely about a difficult child parent. While I'm sorry that this happening to her and sad that we will most likely never have a healthy relationship, I am detached. I'm terribly frightened on the toll this will take on my brother and aunt and sad for Duckie that she will lose a grandparent that has never had an interest in her. But I'm okay. </p><p></p><p>Many people have told her she needed to quit smoking over the last several years. She's blamed her hacking cough on every but cigarettes. She finally went to her GP last week because she just hasn't been feeling well. He scheduled her for the biopsy & endoscopy before she left that appointment. Apparently, it is a very fast growing cancer. </p><p></p><p>I've decided that I will visit once a month. This is so that I won't get sucked into the drama that is my mom's life. I made this decision yesterday while on the phone with her. She had received a terminal diagnosis earlier in the day but nothing has apparently changed. Duckie is sad, but I don't want to expose her to too much of the mayhem. I think, too, it may be the only chance Duckie has of having some relatively normal memories of her grandmother. I just don't think mom can (or will) hold it together more often than that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tiredmommy, post: 323972, member: 1722"] Thank you again for all the support, I truly appreciate it. I think this is the only place I can come where I talk freely about a difficult child parent. While I'm sorry that this happening to her and sad that we will most likely never have a healthy relationship, I am detached. I'm terribly frightened on the toll this will take on my brother and aunt and sad for Duckie that she will lose a grandparent that has never had an interest in her. But I'm okay. Many people have told her she needed to quit smoking over the last several years. She's blamed her hacking cough on every but cigarettes. She finally went to her GP last week because she just hasn't been feeling well. He scheduled her for the biopsy & endoscopy before she left that appointment. Apparently, it is a very fast growing cancer. I've decided that I will visit once a month. This is so that I won't get sucked into the drama that is my mom's life. I made this decision yesterday while on the phone with her. She had received a terminal diagnosis earlier in the day but nothing has apparently changed. Duckie is sad, but I don't want to expose her to too much of the mayhem. I think, too, it may be the only chance Duckie has of having some relatively normal memories of her grandmother. I just don't think mom can (or will) hold it together more often than that. [/QUOTE]
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