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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 198403" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi,</p><p></p><p>just getting to read through these now, difficult child's been a busy girl today......... all great points, that i'm giong to have to refer back to periodically as i handle this and take notes. </p><p></p><p>i've implemented a few things at home as well that i found were lacking. difficult child is very nasty to me alot, she pushed me a few times this week, calls me names when she gets angry, i have an almost 16 year old with whom doesn't act that way towards me at all. so issues or no issues she isn't going to put her hands on me ever again.</p><p></p><p>i sat at computer tonight while i had movie on for her and i did a behavioral chart for her, basics like waking up in a.m. for school, staying in bed at night instead of dancing and not focusing on meditation and breathing i'm doing with her that i continuously have to put her back down again, hw, no name calling, no hitting, etc. i'm going to do some sort of star and reward system. yup should of had one in place i know but better late than never. we had one previously yet i've been so caught up in everything it's no excuse but i did it. </p><p></p><p>so i'm going to implement that monday. i've also noticed taht i'm not calling her on her behaviors enough, i'm allowing her to get to me too much. i have to handle her more like a business instead of getting emotionally charged by her insults and other stuff she does when i tell her no so she had 3 time out's today alone she hates them bigtime.</p><p></p><p>i know none of this may work yet i need to get some assemblance of normalcy in my home. by the way i can't do this medication, i've tried to convince myself to make it ok in my mind and i just don't think i can do it. so it's back to the drawing board to see if i can find an anti anxiety medication again........... i know i should just give up and give her the thorazine but i just can't my gut is not ok with it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 198403, member: 4514"] hi, just getting to read through these now, difficult child's been a busy girl today......... all great points, that i'm giong to have to refer back to periodically as i handle this and take notes. i've implemented a few things at home as well that i found were lacking. difficult child is very nasty to me alot, she pushed me a few times this week, calls me names when she gets angry, i have an almost 16 year old with whom doesn't act that way towards me at all. so issues or no issues she isn't going to put her hands on me ever again. i sat at computer tonight while i had movie on for her and i did a behavioral chart for her, basics like waking up in a.m. for school, staying in bed at night instead of dancing and not focusing on meditation and breathing i'm doing with her that i continuously have to put her back down again, hw, no name calling, no hitting, etc. i'm going to do some sort of star and reward system. yup should of had one in place i know but better late than never. we had one previously yet i've been so caught up in everything it's no excuse but i did it. so i'm going to implement that monday. i've also noticed taht i'm not calling her on her behaviors enough, i'm allowing her to get to me too much. i have to handle her more like a business instead of getting emotionally charged by her insults and other stuff she does when i tell her no so she had 3 time out's today alone she hates them bigtime. i know none of this may work yet i need to get some assemblance of normalcy in my home. by the way i can't do this medication, i've tried to convince myself to make it ok in my mind and i just don't think i can do it. so it's back to the drawing board to see if i can find an anti anxiety medication again........... i know i should just give up and give her the thorazine but i just can't my gut is not ok with it. [/QUOTE]
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