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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 179521" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>Hey Beth,</p><p></p><p>{{{{{HUGS}}}}}</p><p></p><p>First off, just because you're paranoid doesn't mean that they're not out to get you ;-)</p><p></p><p>You're having this uneasy feeling for a reason, so you shouldn't ignore it. Whether you've pinpointed the cause of your nervous feeling correctly or not, SOMETHING is bothering you and you need to sort it out.</p><p></p><p>You have stated your options pretty clearly.</p><p></p><p>A few things to think about...</p><p>- If your husband is doing something sneaky and you mention your unease, he might start to cover his tracks better</p><p>- However, it seems that, with the changed cellphone password, hiding the phone etc., he's already doing that</p><p></p><p>My preferred option would be to tell him. You're seeing signs in his behaviour that indicate he's not being straight up with you, it's making you nervous, and you need to know what's going on.</p><p></p><p>Other, wiser heads will weigh in soon. I will give this some more thought and come back, but these are my first, raw and uncaffeinated impressions.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there,</p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 179521, member: 3907"] Hey Beth, {{{{{HUGS}}}}} First off, just because you're paranoid doesn't mean that they're not out to get you ;-) You're having this uneasy feeling for a reason, so you shouldn't ignore it. Whether you've pinpointed the cause of your nervous feeling correctly or not, SOMETHING is bothering you and you need to sort it out. You have stated your options pretty clearly. A few things to think about... - If your husband is doing something sneaky and you mention your unease, he might start to cover his tracks better - However, it seems that, with the changed cellphone password, hiding the phone etc., he's already doing that My preferred option would be to tell him. You're seeing signs in his behaviour that indicate he's not being straight up with you, it's making you nervous, and you need to know what's going on. Other, wiser heads will weigh in soon. I will give this some more thought and come back, but these are my first, raw and uncaffeinated impressions. Hang in there, Trinity [/QUOTE]
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