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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 179537" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkgreen">I think our gut reaction is always dead on and our natural instincts usually guide us better than anything else. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkgreen">If you've been alone with yourself and released everything else from your mind and your radar is up and your gut is telling you something is not right, then I really think you need to talk with H about it ASAP. You're about to have a major addition to your family - better to have this out in the open and dealt with as soon as possible. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkgreen">And I strongly recommend marital counseling. A) you need to work through your trust issues from his past behaviors and B) he needs to reaffirm his committment to you and understand clearly what that means to both of you and then act on it, whichever way that ends up being. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkgreen">H and I have had a major breach of trust between us and it took me a while before I felt I could trust him again. He's a good hard working man, but he doesn't deal with stress or depression well and that's when the trouble began. KNOWING that, he is able to express himself to ME rather than seek out things on the outside of our marriage that help him cope. I am not trying to be cryptic and I think you understand what I'm saying.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Garamond'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkgreen">I hope you find the strength to face this head on. And don't let him get away with telling you you're just hormonal! Sending hugs~</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 179537, member: 2211"] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkgreen]I think our gut reaction is always dead on and our natural instincts usually guide us better than anything else. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkgreen][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkgreen]If you've been alone with yourself and released everything else from your mind and your radar is up and your gut is telling you something is not right, then I really think you need to talk with H about it ASAP. You're about to have a major addition to your family - better to have this out in the open and dealt with as soon as possible. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkgreen][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkgreen]And I strongly recommend marital counseling. A) you need to work through your trust issues from his past behaviors and B) he needs to reaffirm his committment to you and understand clearly what that means to both of you and then act on it, whichever way that ends up being. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkgreen][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkgreen]H and I have had a major breach of trust between us and it took me a while before I felt I could trust him again. He's a good hard working man, but he doesn't deal with stress or depression well and that's when the trouble began. KNOWING that, he is able to express himself to ME rather than seek out things on the outside of our marriage that help him cope. I am not trying to be cryptic and I think you understand what I'm saying.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkgreen][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Garamond][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkgreen]I hope you find the strength to face this head on. And don't let him get away with telling you you're just hormonal! Sending hugs~[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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