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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 422509" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>oh my word, this woman takes the cake. Hate to call someone stupid, but she is. So she has been upset because she was convinced if my father saw my sister SHE would get in trouble herself and my sister would be taken away from her. The court order says that he can't see her and it also says that if my sisters mom ALLOWS contact she is in trouble and my sister would be removed from her care. The court was wise. They knew she was ridiculous enough to allow the visits so they put that clause in. The key word here is the ALLOW part. She has to ALLOW contact to lose my sister and be liable. She is so ridiculous she won't see sense and listen to anybody on this. She is convinced that if my father SNEAKS and sees my sister BEHIND HER BACK and they admit it happened, that she is in trouble still and still has my sister taken from her care. HELLO??????????? Talking to her is like talking to a ... I don't know ... not something of normal even low intelligence. Because okay, so she thought that but now it was explained to her she should GET IT? Right? Nope!</p><p></p><p>So she told the police that my father went to the school but left gifts and money and cell phone card with a 3rd party and did it without seeing my sister and she went so far as telling the police he also told the 3rd party to wait to give it to my sister until he was gone from the area because he didn't want to get in trouble. She didn't do this to protect my father. She did it to avoid being punished under the court order and to avoid the police leaving with my sister as per the court orders instructions if she allows contact. HELLO? She did not ALLOW it. What does it take for her to clue in? So she lied to the police, which means they did NOT pursue my father for breaching the order. Can you all believe this crud?</p><p></p><p>The worst part? She had my sister lie to me and replace the truth my sister already told me and the truth her mother already told me, with this new story. My sister is convinced that otherwise she is taken away and her mom gets arrested when her mom didn't do anything wrong. So she of course is going with the lie because she feels it stupid to get taken away and scary to get taken away just because he snuck to her school. She's a kid and she believes what her mom tells her to believe, so to her, its logical that the lie isn't a "bad" lie when it means her and her mohter don't suffer for something neither had control over when he turned up like that. My sister deserves better, so much better. I finally just wanted to divert the topic so I said nothing about it anymore except "okay J". And then she disappeared offline again. Then she turned up online frm her school friends house and seemed happy I was to her mind convinced her dad did nothing wrong so she thinks everything going on is going to go away and we can all move on. Meanwhile I got a vile message from her mother. I didn't respond and I will not respond. I will have conversation when my sister allows it with her, I'm in it for my sister for the long haul. But I am not getting into verbal barrages with a lunatic like her mother. </p><p></p><p>This would have went so different if it had happened before a 4 day weekend where there were no case workers working, instead of one emergency on call worker who takes calls and dispatches police when needed but has to stay in a building covering issues for 4 towns on weekends. Argh! Now it will all crank back up again Tuesday when the regular worker takes this on. And of course I have no choice but to explain to worker that my sister was told to lie as I explained above, and tell them what my sister told me until this new "story" and what her mother told me until this new "story". The saving grace being my father admitted in that disgusting 2 hour online "confession" conversation that he had been there without permission and had seen Josie "but didn't go there to hurt her, just to see her and give her the gifts and make sure she could put a card on her cell phone". </p><p></p><p>I'm so tired of this woman. I want to not hate her. She's my sisters mother and my sister is just turned 13 so I have to find a way to manage about her for years if I want to be in my sisters life. Can you imagine if child protection finds cause to remove my sister? (Wouldn't be hard frankly) If so, she comes to me. Imagine dealing with his lunatic space cadet then??? I worked my butt off to turn my "former" difficult child into a easy child and watch him grow wings and fly the coop just over a week ago to a new adventure into productive adult living. Have I suceeded in one to be saddled with another, in the form of this 38 year old nutbar? I'm in for the long haul with my sister. Her mother though? I can't deal. ARGH!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 422509, member: 4264"] oh my word, this woman takes the cake. Hate to call someone stupid, but she is. So she has been upset because she was convinced if my father saw my sister SHE would get in trouble herself and my sister would be taken away from her. The court order says that he can't see her and it also says that if my sisters mom ALLOWS contact she is in trouble and my sister would be removed from her care. The court was wise. They knew she was ridiculous enough to allow the visits so they put that clause in. The key word here is the ALLOW part. She has to ALLOW contact to lose my sister and be liable. She is so ridiculous she won't see sense and listen to anybody on this. She is convinced that if my father SNEAKS and sees my sister BEHIND HER BACK and they admit it happened, that she is in trouble still and still has my sister taken from her care. HELLO??????????? Talking to her is like talking to a ... I don't know ... not something of normal even low intelligence. Because okay, so she thought that but now it was explained to her she should GET IT? Right? Nope! So she told the police that my father went to the school but left gifts and money and cell phone card with a 3rd party and did it without seeing my sister and she went so far as telling the police he also told the 3rd party to wait to give it to my sister until he was gone from the area because he didn't want to get in trouble. She didn't do this to protect my father. She did it to avoid being punished under the court order and to avoid the police leaving with my sister as per the court orders instructions if she allows contact. HELLO? She did not ALLOW it. What does it take for her to clue in? So she lied to the police, which means they did NOT pursue my father for breaching the order. Can you all believe this crud? The worst part? She had my sister lie to me and replace the truth my sister already told me and the truth her mother already told me, with this new story. My sister is convinced that otherwise she is taken away and her mom gets arrested when her mom didn't do anything wrong. So she of course is going with the lie because she feels it stupid to get taken away and scary to get taken away just because he snuck to her school. She's a kid and she believes what her mom tells her to believe, so to her, its logical that the lie isn't a "bad" lie when it means her and her mohter don't suffer for something neither had control over when he turned up like that. My sister deserves better, so much better. I finally just wanted to divert the topic so I said nothing about it anymore except "okay J". And then she disappeared offline again. Then she turned up online frm her school friends house and seemed happy I was to her mind convinced her dad did nothing wrong so she thinks everything going on is going to go away and we can all move on. Meanwhile I got a vile message from her mother. I didn't respond and I will not respond. I will have conversation when my sister allows it with her, I'm in it for my sister for the long haul. But I am not getting into verbal barrages with a lunatic like her mother. This would have went so different if it had happened before a 4 day weekend where there were no case workers working, instead of one emergency on call worker who takes calls and dispatches police when needed but has to stay in a building covering issues for 4 towns on weekends. Argh! Now it will all crank back up again Tuesday when the regular worker takes this on. And of course I have no choice but to explain to worker that my sister was told to lie as I explained above, and tell them what my sister told me until this new "story" and what her mother told me until this new "story". The saving grace being my father admitted in that disgusting 2 hour online "confession" conversation that he had been there without permission and had seen Josie "but didn't go there to hurt her, just to see her and give her the gifts and make sure she could put a card on her cell phone". I'm so tired of this woman. I want to not hate her. She's my sisters mother and my sister is just turned 13 so I have to find a way to manage about her for years if I want to be in my sisters life. Can you imagine if child protection finds cause to remove my sister? (Wouldn't be hard frankly) If so, she comes to me. Imagine dealing with his lunatic space cadet then??? I worked my butt off to turn my "former" difficult child into a easy child and watch him grow wings and fly the coop just over a week ago to a new adventure into productive adult living. Have I suceeded in one to be saddled with another, in the form of this 38 year old nutbar? I'm in for the long haul with my sister. Her mother though? I can't deal. ARGH! [/QUOTE]
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