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<blockquote data-quote="Kathy813" data-source="post: 694440" data-attributes="member: 1967"><p>RN, you are doing great! Don't second guess yourself. Letting your husband be the primary contact now is a good idea. Give yourself some time and space.</p><p></p><p>I think you are absolutely correct in making your son clean up his own messes. He needs to pay for the traffic violations. I would also make it a condition that he needs to be able to pay for six months of insurance and any car tag fees to get it switched over to his name. You don't want to be held liable if he has an accident when drunk or high when the car is still in your name or on your insurance.</p><p></p><p>My daughter also had a hard time seeing herself as equal to the other addicts in the program. It is part of the surrender process that is critical to recovery.</p><p></p><p>I think that Copa is right. Your son thinks he can still control the situation. He is using school as a manipulation tool to get you to give him what he wants.</p><p></p><p>Stay strong.</p><p></p><p>~Kathy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kathy813, post: 694440, member: 1967"] RN, you are doing great! Don't second guess yourself. Letting your husband be the primary contact now is a good idea. Give yourself some time and space. I think you are absolutely correct in making your son clean up his own messes. He needs to pay for the traffic violations. I would also make it a condition that he needs to be able to pay for six months of insurance and any car tag fees to get it switched over to his name. You don't want to be held liable if he has an accident when drunk or high when the car is still in your name or on your insurance. My daughter also had a hard time seeing herself as equal to the other addicts in the program. It is part of the surrender process that is critical to recovery. I think that Copa is right. Your son thinks he can still control the situation. He is using school as a manipulation tool to get you to give him what he wants. Stay strong. ~Kathy [/QUOTE]
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