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<blockquote data-quote="Ropefree" data-source="post: 234570" data-attributes="member: 6271"><p>totoro: Yoga is so good..and yep, in the beginning hard to do. The self awareness to stay safe and to go slow and to progress can lead to a far better life. Good for you for doing it.</p><p> I like Louis Hay and learning affirmations. </p><p></p><p> The negative inner talk and the habits of mind that perpetuate our own self</p><p>enduced misery do sound as if the things that are behind them are unimportant.</p><p>Yet when we have bad things and the thoughts that purculate up in our minds around them as companions we are clinging to the negativity and nursing it into a </p><p>imaginary companion that is a misuse of our imagination. Something bad happens.</p><p>Then it is over. WE remember the bad thing that happened and we add to it with our busy mind. The best thing we may do with the memory of a bad thing that happened is decide or determine if there was something we did not do that could have been done to prevent it. If there is something that we think of after the fact that we could have done but did not we can accept that we missed the chance, or we can add to the bad thing that happened by including the new thought that we did not think fast and do that thing we did not but could have. Or if we did think of the thing and did not do it befor the bad thing happened we can then wallow in misery over the fact that we essentially are bad and wrong.</p><p></p><p>Yes negatively speaking we can go on and on and on.</p><p></p><p>The happy journel is a great idea. Now you have and assignment to create something tangible that has the quality of possitivity and that compells you to find the happy and focus on it. And where does that lead? hmm...I may have to try that out for size myself.</p><p></p><p>One vedio I found that I watched just because of the title was called THE JOY OF STRESS. That in mind the next time someone is endulging themself with same you may adopt a calm relaxed counter pose and let them be the center of attention emotionally. usually that is what the REAL problem is. Does you husband not want his child to get care? No. The down right truth is, though, it is that what proffessional require for their time is exploitve. It is healthy to feel mad when someone is exploiting the suffering of others for finacial gain. So watch and enjoy the primal adjustment proceedure as the modern human takes in an attack(bill) and then eventually rises to the occation to counter attack(pay it).</p><p>I might decide to have a husband if he were likely to adorn himself with feathers and paint and either with or without loin cloth sit down to pay bills.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ropefree, post: 234570, member: 6271"] totoro: Yoga is so good..and yep, in the beginning hard to do. The self awareness to stay safe and to go slow and to progress can lead to a far better life. Good for you for doing it. I like Louis Hay and learning affirmations. The negative inner talk and the habits of mind that perpetuate our own self enduced misery do sound as if the things that are behind them are unimportant. Yet when we have bad things and the thoughts that purculate up in our minds around them as companions we are clinging to the negativity and nursing it into a imaginary companion that is a misuse of our imagination. Something bad happens. Then it is over. WE remember the bad thing that happened and we add to it with our busy mind. The best thing we may do with the memory of a bad thing that happened is decide or determine if there was something we did not do that could have been done to prevent it. If there is something that we think of after the fact that we could have done but did not we can accept that we missed the chance, or we can add to the bad thing that happened by including the new thought that we did not think fast and do that thing we did not but could have. Or if we did think of the thing and did not do it befor the bad thing happened we can then wallow in misery over the fact that we essentially are bad and wrong. Yes negatively speaking we can go on and on and on. The happy journel is a great idea. Now you have and assignment to create something tangible that has the quality of possitivity and that compells you to find the happy and focus on it. And where does that lead? hmm...I may have to try that out for size myself. One vedio I found that I watched just because of the title was called THE JOY OF STRESS. That in mind the next time someone is endulging themself with same you may adopt a calm relaxed counter pose and let them be the center of attention emotionally. usually that is what the REAL problem is. Does you husband not want his child to get care? No. The down right truth is, though, it is that what proffessional require for their time is exploitve. It is healthy to feel mad when someone is exploiting the suffering of others for finacial gain. So watch and enjoy the primal adjustment proceedure as the modern human takes in an attack(bill) and then eventually rises to the occation to counter attack(pay it). I might decide to have a husband if he were likely to adorn himself with feathers and paint and either with or without loin cloth sit down to pay bills. [/QUOTE]
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