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My text convo with difficult child today
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 501814"><p>LOL Nancy. Thanks yes you be angry for me. To be honest I am beyond being angry. I am reading that book Changing Lives (not far in it yet) so I am just seeing his behavior as part of being a drug addict. I am actually kind of amused... I mean he says "Do you believe everything you are told??".....LOL yeah thats part of my problem I believed you too much!!! Guess that line of his didn't work on me. LOL.</p><p></p><p>I really feel like I am making a shift to a different place. Of course it comes and goes.... but honestly i had a good day today. He is going to do what he is going to do and if he never really gets in recovery that is his choice. I really can't do any more than I have already done. One thing I realized this weekend is that for whatever reason he needs some serious space from me...... I think I bring out his guilt, his remorse, his self loathing and he can't handle it. I don't think it is something I am doing as much as his own feelings about himself. BUT I am thinking now that he needs space from me to figure it out. So I am giving him as much space as I can. I am learning to detach.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 501814"] LOL Nancy. Thanks yes you be angry for me. To be honest I am beyond being angry. I am reading that book Changing Lives (not far in it yet) so I am just seeing his behavior as part of being a drug addict. I am actually kind of amused... I mean he says "Do you believe everything you are told??".....LOL yeah thats part of my problem I believed you too much!!! Guess that line of his didn't work on me. LOL. I really feel like I am making a shift to a different place. Of course it comes and goes.... but honestly i had a good day today. He is going to do what he is going to do and if he never really gets in recovery that is his choice. I really can't do any more than I have already done. One thing I realized this weekend is that for whatever reason he needs some serious space from me...... I think I bring out his guilt, his remorse, his self loathing and he can't handle it. I don't think it is something I am doing as much as his own feelings about himself. BUT I am thinking now that he needs space from me to figure it out. So I am giving him as much space as I can. I am learning to detach. TL [/QUOTE]
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