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<blockquote data-quote="SeaGenieTx" data-source="post: 668235" data-attributes="member: 18773"><p>Again thank you ALL for taking the time to post - every single response has given great words of wisdom and/or valuable advice and I have listened very closely to what you guys are saying. Thank you all so, so much.</p><p></p><p>My son must have realized I could see his bank transactions, he has changed his password. Now I can only find out what he might be doing by checking his friends Instagram or his Facebook but even that is all getting tiresome. I know he is not suicidal since he bought a car. I'm giving it a rest for the next several days while I am at the beach. The weather could not be more beautiful. Got my appointment with Dr. Salt.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/beach.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":beach:" title="beach :beach:" data-shortname=":beach:" /></p><p></p><p>I remember how incredibly sad I was when my son never contacted me last Mother's Day. I sent him a text telling him thanks for remembering and his response was "What is your problem, I was just texting you to wish you a Happy Mothers Day but you beat me to it, I just woke up". At 2 in the afternoon? Day was halfway over. He was at someone else's house and never came home that day. I spent it alone. I was so sad. I'd rather be acknowledged on Mother's Day than my own birthday. I expect zero from him on Friday (my birthday). Not even going to HOPE to hear from him.</p><p></p><p>I'm ok I just keep getting these anxiety attacks<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/panicsmiley.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":panicsmiley:" title="panicsmiley :panicsmiley:" data-shortname=":panicsmiley:" /> where I suddenly think what if he dies...what if I never see him again. What if I'm old and dying and he hates me and I will never see him again. I thought at this age we'd be close and he'd be on his own, happy, enjoying his life and I'd be proud and enjoying seeing him go to school or work, eventually get married...</p><p></p><p>I'm just not sure he is mentally stable to enough to do good and make the right choices. I sure hope so as all I can do right now is HOPE but I've got to decompress from this a bit. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/hamwheelsmilf.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hamwheelsmilf:" title="hamwheelsmilf :hamwheelsmilf:" data-shortname=":hamwheelsmilf:" /> My stomach is in knots and I'm mentally drained from worry. I'm going to re-read the detachment article then pack for my beach adventure. I love you all - I swear no counseling session could surpass the support you people have given me. This has truly been a lifesaver - thank you again. Hugs to each one of you!</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeaGenieTx, post: 668235, member: 18773"] Again thank you ALL for taking the time to post - every single response has given great words of wisdom and/or valuable advice and I have listened very closely to what you guys are saying. Thank you all so, so much. My son must have realized I could see his bank transactions, he has changed his password. Now I can only find out what he might be doing by checking his friends Instagram or his Facebook but even that is all getting tiresome. I know he is not suicidal since he bought a car. I'm giving it a rest for the next several days while I am at the beach. The weather could not be more beautiful. Got my appointment with Dr. Salt. :beach: I remember how incredibly sad I was when my son never contacted me last Mother's Day. I sent him a text telling him thanks for remembering and his response was "What is your problem, I was just texting you to wish you a Happy Mothers Day but you beat me to it, I just woke up". At 2 in the afternoon? Day was halfway over. He was at someone else's house and never came home that day. I spent it alone. I was so sad. I'd rather be acknowledged on Mother's Day than my own birthday. I expect zero from him on Friday (my birthday). Not even going to HOPE to hear from him. I'm ok I just keep getting these anxiety attacks:panicsmiley: where I suddenly think what if he dies...what if I never see him again. What if I'm old and dying and he hates me and I will never see him again. I thought at this age we'd be close and he'd be on his own, happy, enjoying his life and I'd be proud and enjoying seeing him go to school or work, eventually get married... I'm just not sure he is mentally stable to enough to do good and make the right choices. I sure hope so as all I can do right now is HOPE but I've got to decompress from this a bit. :hamwheelsmilf: My stomach is in knots and I'm mentally drained from worry. I'm going to re-read the detachment article then pack for my beach adventure. I love you all - I swear no counseling session could surpass the support you people have given me. This has truly been a lifesaver - thank you again. Hugs to each one of you! :hugs: [/QUOTE]
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