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Need Input, Please - Email from gfg32's girlfriend has me shaken
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 621328" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I agree.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>That is the question. In a normal situation, it would be the man and the woman involved who would, together, put things right in their own lives. Something fishy going on here with the girlfriend, too. I agree that she does not want responsibility for gfg32 and is trying to dump him on your doorstep so she can look good while making a clean getaway.</p><p></p><p>I am thinking your difficult child was not the only one using spice or drugs.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>So do some soldiers fighting in foreign lands. But they don't write mommy about how unfair it is, or how afraid they are that they might have to work McDonald's.</p><p></p><p>This girlfriend is walking all over you in her letter. There are good therapists and boy, there are some who are worse than not seeing a therapist at all. </p><p></p><p>Both kinds are licensed.</p><p></p><p>********************</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>He's been without a job for two months.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Adults join forces and make it through whatever the challenge is. You have helped your son to this point. It has not worked. It will never work. The only thing that could possibly help your son is to live with the woman he claims to love, and who claims to love him, and beat his addiction on a day to day, minute to minute, I-want-you-more-than-I-want-drugs status.</p><p></p><p>She is the one leaving him.</p><p></p><p>Not you.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>They are giving her a plane ticket and a place to stay after she and difficult child used up everything else. </p><p></p><p>They don't want to take your difficult child on, too.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Then why is she leaving him, now?</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 621328, member: 17461"] I agree. That is the question. In a normal situation, it would be the man and the woman involved who would, together, put things right in their own lives. Something fishy going on here with the girlfriend, too. I agree that she does not want responsibility for gfg32 and is trying to dump him on your doorstep so she can look good while making a clean getaway. I am thinking your difficult child was not the only one using spice or drugs. So do some soldiers fighting in foreign lands. But they don't write mommy about how unfair it is, or how afraid they are that they might have to work McDonald's. This girlfriend is walking all over you in her letter. There are good therapists and boy, there are some who are worse than not seeing a therapist at all. Both kinds are licensed. ******************** He's been without a job for two months. Adults join forces and make it through whatever the challenge is. You have helped your son to this point. It has not worked. It will never work. The only thing that could possibly help your son is to live with the woman he claims to love, and who claims to love him, and beat his addiction on a day to day, minute to minute, I-want-you-more-than-I-want-drugs status. She is the one leaving him. Not you. They are giving her a plane ticket and a place to stay after she and difficult child used up everything else. They don't want to take your difficult child on, too. Then why is she leaving him, now? Cedar [/QUOTE]
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