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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 87898" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>Thanks Barb, I am heading to B&N tonight and wanted to suggested reading to check out while I am there. </p><p></p><p>Appreciate the input! </p><p></p><p>Congrats to everyone that is assertive. I do not think I have a real problem with assertiveness per se, it is something different than that. I like being nice and putting others first, I do not have a problem with that. I put myself first when I want to or need to. </p><p></p><p></p><p>So here is the real deal. I like myself. I like myself alot more when I am feeling good about myself. When I have the confidence and hold my head high. It comes and goes for me. When I am feeling good about me, I lose weight, I eat healthier, I go to the gym, I just generally enjoy life more. </p><p>The problem is that slips away from me at times. I hate it. I have to fight to not slip away from the confident busywend. </p><p>So, I am fighting it now. Because I recognize it. I used to not even be aware I was slipping or had slipped into not good busywend. </p><p></p><p>Now that I recognize it I can tell I am sliding toward the dark side and I am holding on for dear life not to go back there! </p><p> :smile:</p><p>So, I need something that will help me realize everyday that I love the confident, fun, looking good busywend and want her to stay. </p><p></p><p>Does that make sense? I do not know what that would be called.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 87898, member: 391"] Thanks Barb, I am heading to B&N tonight and wanted to suggested reading to check out while I am there. Appreciate the input! Congrats to everyone that is assertive. I do not think I have a real problem with assertiveness per se, it is something different than that. I like being nice and putting others first, I do not have a problem with that. I put myself first when I want to or need to. So here is the real deal. I like myself. I like myself alot more when I am feeling good about myself. When I have the confidence and hold my head high. It comes and goes for me. When I am feeling good about me, I lose weight, I eat healthier, I go to the gym, I just generally enjoy life more. The problem is that slips away from me at times. I hate it. I have to fight to not slip away from the confident busywend. So, I am fighting it now. Because I recognize it. I used to not even be aware I was slipping or had slipped into not good busywend. Now that I recognize it I can tell I am sliding toward the dark side and I am holding on for dear life not to go back there! [img]:smile:[/img] So, I need something that will help me realize everyday that I love the confident, fun, looking good busywend and want her to stay. Does that make sense? I do not know what that would be called. [/QUOTE]
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