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<blockquote data-quote="slsh" data-source="post: 313830" data-attributes="member: 8"><p>Denita - I'm not sure there's a right or wrong answer here. I think you and husband will have to make the choice that you can both live with best, that is the right answer for you two.</p><p> </p><p>I think emotionallybankrupt brings up a good point - if you do get her an atty and she gets bonded out, are you and husband prepared to deal with- any requirements as part of her bond? Would she be allowed to go back to where she was living before the arrest?</p><p> </p><p>Personally, I'm with Lisa - I will not hire attys nor will I bail a kid out. My husband is a little softer touch and would probably waiver a bit, but I'm pretty adamant about it. The only way I would change my mind is if it created a rift for husband and me - raising a difficult child created enough marital stress. husband is my priority. If he really dug his heels in on it, I would give. </p><p> </p><p>I hope you and husband are able to come up with- a solution that works for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="slsh, post: 313830, member: 8"] Denita - I'm not sure there's a right or wrong answer here. I think you and husband will have to make the choice that you can both live with best, that is the right answer for you two. I think emotionallybankrupt brings up a good point - if you do get her an atty and she gets bonded out, are you and husband prepared to deal with- any requirements as part of her bond? Would she be allowed to go back to where she was living before the arrest? Personally, I'm with Lisa - I will not hire attys nor will I bail a kid out. My husband is a little softer touch and would probably waiver a bit, but I'm pretty adamant about it. The only way I would change my mind is if it created a rift for husband and me - raising a difficult child created enough marital stress. husband is my priority. If he really dug his heels in on it, I would give. I hope you and husband are able to come up with- a solution that works for you. [/QUOTE]
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