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Need your wise opinions...think difficult child-A is up to something
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 350622" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Candles and incense mean he is using drugs in there. The sudden locking up means he either has a stash of drugs or he is using enough drugs to become paranoid. Likely both. The friend coming over was NOT a friend and NOT looking for a shirt. Was likely looking for the drugs or other contraband item that difficult child has stashed. If it isn't drugs it may be a large amt of money, a gun, or something else, but he has SOMETHING stashed, most likely. </p><p></p><p>This is the kind of thing that gets houses broken into, and gets people hurt badly. You MUST search his room, including all places he may have stashed something. If you find something (when, most likely) you must not tell him, you must contact the police. He may have done something that gets him into more trouble than he can handle. we want to think if our kids are involved in drugs that it is just with other kids like him. Sadly that is NOT the drug business. Most often at least some of the people he is around are connected to a larger organization that is handling drugs. That means it is major danger. So when you find something turning to the police may be the only way to help him get out of the entire situation.</p><p></p><p>It is also the natural consequence of stashing drugs at your parents. Parents call the cops. One more reason not to get involved with drugs.</p><p></p><p>Search, search well, and if/when you find something, contact the proper authorities. Don't give him warnings. He already knows he is not supposed to use drugs or have them on your property. Taking his door off when he isn't home is also a good idea, as are spy cams. I wouldn't bluff about them. I would spend the money to get some decent ones and place them around the home, esp in and around his room and the garage. </p><p></p><p>I am so sorry. maybe I am too suspicious, but I grew up knowing lots of cops and it really seems like he may have done something very dumb and maybe dangerous.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 350622, member: 1233"] Candles and incense mean he is using drugs in there. The sudden locking up means he either has a stash of drugs or he is using enough drugs to become paranoid. Likely both. The friend coming over was NOT a friend and NOT looking for a shirt. Was likely looking for the drugs or other contraband item that difficult child has stashed. If it isn't drugs it may be a large amt of money, a gun, or something else, but he has SOMETHING stashed, most likely. This is the kind of thing that gets houses broken into, and gets people hurt badly. You MUST search his room, including all places he may have stashed something. If you find something (when, most likely) you must not tell him, you must contact the police. He may have done something that gets him into more trouble than he can handle. we want to think if our kids are involved in drugs that it is just with other kids like him. Sadly that is NOT the drug business. Most often at least some of the people he is around are connected to a larger organization that is handling drugs. That means it is major danger. So when you find something turning to the police may be the only way to help him get out of the entire situation. It is also the natural consequence of stashing drugs at your parents. Parents call the cops. One more reason not to get involved with drugs. Search, search well, and if/when you find something, contact the proper authorities. Don't give him warnings. He already knows he is not supposed to use drugs or have them on your property. Taking his door off when he isn't home is also a good idea, as are spy cams. I wouldn't bluff about them. I would spend the money to get some decent ones and place them around the home, esp in and around his room and the garage. I am so sorry. maybe I am too suspicious, but I grew up knowing lots of cops and it really seems like he may have done something very dumb and maybe dangerous. [/QUOTE]
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