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Neighbor child defecated in my yard
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 597910" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>You need to meet the family. I would not assume the parents are at fault, or grands or whomever, but I would start sending the boy home to use the bathroom and NOT allow him into your home. I am uncomfortable when a child ust walks in and makes himself/herself at home. It si one thing for a child who is here all the time, but a casual friend who clearly has someissues? Part of the problem is making sure that his family doesn't get ether the wrong idea about YOU or start to use you as unasked babystting. The family needs to know what he is doing, wouldn't you want to if it was your kid? If there is something wrong at home, you can deal with it then. If the family refuses to admit it happened, then I would start to worry. I would watch and if the scheduled bathroom breaks at home are not followed, then you may have to do something else. </p><p></p><p>I would say that if it happens again then soemthing is likely quite wrong. either with himr the family, but if it keeps happening you have to think about other steps. </p><p></p><p>I grew up ith a younger girl who would pee or poo on someone's property if she got mad. Her family kept saying it didn't happen until one day I asked her dad to come iwth me and he saw her climbing off of a friend's mom's car hood after leaving a pile on the hood. She didn't get to go play for quite a while and they were the first adults I knew to go take parenting classes after that. She now would be considered autistic probably, but back then it was just 'off'.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 597910, member: 1233"] You need to meet the family. I would not assume the parents are at fault, or grands or whomever, but I would start sending the boy home to use the bathroom and NOT allow him into your home. I am uncomfortable when a child ust walks in and makes himself/herself at home. It si one thing for a child who is here all the time, but a casual friend who clearly has someissues? Part of the problem is making sure that his family doesn't get ether the wrong idea about YOU or start to use you as unasked babystting. The family needs to know what he is doing, wouldn't you want to if it was your kid? If there is something wrong at home, you can deal with it then. If the family refuses to admit it happened, then I would start to worry. I would watch and if the scheduled bathroom breaks at home are not followed, then you may have to do something else. I would say that if it happens again then soemthing is likely quite wrong. either with himr the family, but if it keeps happening you have to think about other steps. I grew up ith a younger girl who would pee or poo on someone's property if she got mad. Her family kept saying it didn't happen until one day I asked her dad to come iwth me and he saw her climbing off of a friend's mom's car hood after leaving a pile on the hood. She didn't get to go play for quite a while and they were the first adults I knew to go take parenting classes after that. She now would be considered autistic probably, but back then it was just 'off'. [/QUOTE]
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