and I am surprised difficult child has not clocked him!! The kid is downright mean. I am sure it is a reflection of how he is treated, but he keeps yelling at difficult child. difficult child was walking in front of him, and cousin screamed for him to get out of the way. All things that someone could ask nicely. difficult child let him play his gameboy, difficult child was helping and cousin screamed at him to let him do it. difficult child left him alone and then cousin screamed for help!!! So then difficult child went to help. This is crazy!! difficult child is so patient, it is insane. He keeps helping him and keeps playing with him. This is so amazing. I do not think we will have cousin over too horribly often, at most once a month. This is exhausting. For all difficult child's issues, he has rarely been mean and nasty on purpose. Demanding, oh yah. But this is something else. Cousin could be a difficult child in his own right.