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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 396436" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Janet ...................... <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/rofl.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":rofl:" title="rofl :rofl:" data-shortname=":rofl:" /> <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/rofl.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":rofl:" title="rofl :rofl:" data-shortname=":rofl:" /></p><p></p><p>Susie, I am much relieved for your sake you've decided to stop playing the game. You're right, it's going to get a LOT worse before it gets better, IF it gets better. (sometimes is does not get better, I'm afraid) </p><p></p><p>Don't expect to be perfect at not getting pulled back into her drama. Because you won't be. It's going to be struggle for a while as you get used to setting up those boundaries and firmly keep them into place. If you mess up, learn from it, put the boundary in place and go on. In time you will get good at it and it won't bother near as much. You might even get like me..........who is so cold hearted I can now laugh at my mom's antics........Although she's not tried anything serious since she disowned me and it backfired in her face. </p><p></p><p>She's mentally ill. That is not your fault and you can't help her. All you can do is protect yourself and your family from her mental illness.</p><p></p><p>We're here when you need us.</p><p></p><p>Many ((((hugs))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 396436, member: 84"] Janet ...................... :rofl: :rofl: Susie, I am much relieved for your sake you've decided to stop playing the game. You're right, it's going to get a LOT worse before it gets better, IF it gets better. (sometimes is does not get better, I'm afraid) Don't expect to be perfect at not getting pulled back into her drama. Because you won't be. It's going to be struggle for a while as you get used to setting up those boundaries and firmly keep them into place. If you mess up, learn from it, put the boundary in place and go on. In time you will get good at it and it won't bother near as much. You might even get like me..........who is so cold hearted I can now laugh at my mom's antics........Although she's not tried anything serious since she disowned me and it backfired in her face. She's mentally ill. That is not your fault and you can't help her. All you can do is protect yourself and your family from her mental illness. We're here when you need us. Many ((((hugs)))) [/QUOTE]
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