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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 288505" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>Marg, too right on all you said. It's still hard to imagine people thinking badly of my S/O. He's a wonderful spouse and a wonderful step parent to my kids. He's moved mountains to be part of this family and I know its hard on him to have been so defenseless. He thinks he somehow let us down. I keep telling him NOBODY saw this coming and being attacked from behind and beated to the head well who could defend from that??? But men like him are protectors and I know its hard on him for that reason, as well as the logical reasons.</p><p></p><p>As for the doctor, well I am so disgusted that I cannot even go see him. I can't stomache it and we realized that now we HAVE waited too long. Given psycho has been quiet, we cannot prove at this stage that he is currently a danger. But bet your bootie that if he makes one threat with a witness or anything of hte like, I will NOT make an appointment. I will simply file another police report and be standing in docs office expecting to be seen or threatening legal action if doctor will not see us given the circumstances. My superintendent has a huge file on the nut and is willing to come to appointment with me to explain all of this and give other witness names and contact info so as that the doctor cannot pretend to cover his own butt and stay "out of it" by pretending it's my word over his other patients. </p><p></p><p>As for personally, this doctor will NEVER treat myself and my children again. I can see him not knowing any different story when nut got to him first. But when the call came from my super with the details etc and then my discussion and his receptionist getting the photos etc, he could have acted THEN. THere wasn't too long a period of time elapsed for him to have acted. A man with that little faith in me after 18 years of doctoring myself and the kids, and knowing this man for only 4 years and knowing his mental health history, well wouldn't you have investigated further after my call? Even to save his own butt legally, he did not a thing. I'm pretty jaded about him at this point.</p><p></p><p>Meanwhile, things remain quiet for now and we remain in the house and hopeful things remain calm till his eviction and charges get laid in full power of the law with much more investigation completed now. We definitly need to be able to relax like the past few days. We are only human, things like this take a major toll on a family. </p><p></p><p>We have decided we are going ahead with having military post us away from here. They wanted to in the first place, we had to special request to stay here. We wanted a couple of years before moving easy child to avoid her bio dad wanting to fight a move in court. Well this pushed our hand. Hopefully her bio dad understands, otherwise another stressful item in our future, court for custody of easy child. He is the type to fight. I hope he doesn't. But regardless, we must move. We can't live looking over our shoulder. This town is not very large either, so eventually we'd run into him. Who wants to live that way???</p><p></p><p>M.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 288505, member: 4264"] Marg, too right on all you said. It's still hard to imagine people thinking badly of my S/O. He's a wonderful spouse and a wonderful step parent to my kids. He's moved mountains to be part of this family and I know its hard on him to have been so defenseless. He thinks he somehow let us down. I keep telling him NOBODY saw this coming and being attacked from behind and beated to the head well who could defend from that??? But men like him are protectors and I know its hard on him for that reason, as well as the logical reasons. As for the doctor, well I am so disgusted that I cannot even go see him. I can't stomache it and we realized that now we HAVE waited too long. Given psycho has been quiet, we cannot prove at this stage that he is currently a danger. But bet your bootie that if he makes one threat with a witness or anything of hte like, I will NOT make an appointment. I will simply file another police report and be standing in docs office expecting to be seen or threatening legal action if doctor will not see us given the circumstances. My superintendent has a huge file on the nut and is willing to come to appointment with me to explain all of this and give other witness names and contact info so as that the doctor cannot pretend to cover his own butt and stay "out of it" by pretending it's my word over his other patients. As for personally, this doctor will NEVER treat myself and my children again. I can see him not knowing any different story when nut got to him first. But when the call came from my super with the details etc and then my discussion and his receptionist getting the photos etc, he could have acted THEN. THere wasn't too long a period of time elapsed for him to have acted. A man with that little faith in me after 18 years of doctoring myself and the kids, and knowing this man for only 4 years and knowing his mental health history, well wouldn't you have investigated further after my call? Even to save his own butt legally, he did not a thing. I'm pretty jaded about him at this point. Meanwhile, things remain quiet for now and we remain in the house and hopeful things remain calm till his eviction and charges get laid in full power of the law with much more investigation completed now. We definitly need to be able to relax like the past few days. We are only human, things like this take a major toll on a family. We have decided we are going ahead with having military post us away from here. They wanted to in the first place, we had to special request to stay here. We wanted a couple of years before moving easy child to avoid her bio dad wanting to fight a move in court. Well this pushed our hand. Hopefully her bio dad understands, otherwise another stressful item in our future, court for custody of easy child. He is the type to fight. I hope he doesn't. But regardless, we must move. We can't live looking over our shoulder. This town is not very large either, so eventually we'd run into him. Who wants to live that way??? M. [/QUOTE]
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