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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 533787" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>If he is adopted from foster care, do you have any post adoption services in your city/county? I would think NOT placing him out of the home could interfere with the adoption of the two others. yikes, so much for common sense, huh? It does sound like you know he needs to be in residential care. Even if it may take months, it is still worth starting the process because you can still look for faster options but at least one option is started, right? or am I not understanding?? </p><p></p><p>I am just so sorry. You dont have more animals I hope? There are others here who have had kids kill pets. My son killed hamsters when he was little, but it was a fear response, he was holding them and one bit so he threw them. He still remembers and feels badly. Very different thing but he does say things like, I'm too tough for you and I w ill never back down when I am mad I'll show you and you will pay for it, etc. Tons of verbal junk like that. (he has attachment issues too)</p><p></p><p>For now he will need to go with you everywhere, and when you go to the bathroom, he can sit outside of the door and sing so you know he is there.... I had to do that with Q a long time ago. You are right though, there obviously will be some point where he is alone. any chance to get a waking hours pca? In home care at least costs less than residential until you can make other arrangements. I can imagine you feel quite desperate. I have an intense child but no others to worry about. I know others here can offer ideas better than I. Some have had cameras in every room of the house. </p><p></p><p>Welcome to the CD board, so glad you found us! Will be thinking of you and hoping for some relief. hugs.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 533787, member: 12886"] If he is adopted from foster care, do you have any post adoption services in your city/county? I would think NOT placing him out of the home could interfere with the adoption of the two others. yikes, so much for common sense, huh? It does sound like you know he needs to be in residential care. Even if it may take months, it is still worth starting the process because you can still look for faster options but at least one option is started, right? or am I not understanding?? I am just so sorry. You dont have more animals I hope? There are others here who have had kids kill pets. My son killed hamsters when he was little, but it was a fear response, he was holding them and one bit so he threw them. He still remembers and feels badly. Very different thing but he does say things like, I'm too tough for you and I w ill never back down when I am mad I'll show you and you will pay for it, etc. Tons of verbal junk like that. (he has attachment issues too) For now he will need to go with you everywhere, and when you go to the bathroom, he can sit outside of the door and sing so you know he is there.... I had to do that with Q a long time ago. You are right though, there obviously will be some point where he is alone. any chance to get a waking hours pca? In home care at least costs less than residential until you can make other arrangements. I can imagine you feel quite desperate. I have an intense child but no others to worry about. I know others here can offer ideas better than I. Some have had cameras in every room of the house. Welcome to the CD board, so glad you found us! Will be thinking of you and hoping for some relief. hugs..... [/QUOTE]
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