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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 533842" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I dealt with a woman who I thought was a friend who had a son who perped on his youngest step sister. They also were a large family. He was the oldest. It was a mess of a case and she really didnt want him charged and to avoid that I agreed to take the boy into my house while they looked for a Residential Treatment Center (RTC) who would take a boy like him who was a sexual predator for a fairly long term treatment. I had no girls in or around my home at the time. I dont know if I did the right thing or not. I was able to get him started in therapy and it was summer time so school wasnt an issue. I know after he left we found porn having to do with incest at my house and he had stolen some stuff from us. His mother really never spoke to me much or sent me any support to help me like she had promised. I probably did the wrong thing because looking back, he should have been charged but at the time I thought she was such a good friend. </p><p></p><p>If you really want to adopt these other kids and are so worried this will effect you badly, maybe you could find a relative with no kids who can watch him 24/7 plus take him to the therapy he will need. I dont know. It might buy you the time you need.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 533842, member: 1514"] I dealt with a woman who I thought was a friend who had a son who perped on his youngest step sister. They also were a large family. He was the oldest. It was a mess of a case and she really didnt want him charged and to avoid that I agreed to take the boy into my house while they looked for a Residential Treatment Center (RTC) who would take a boy like him who was a sexual predator for a fairly long term treatment. I had no girls in or around my home at the time. I dont know if I did the right thing or not. I was able to get him started in therapy and it was summer time so school wasnt an issue. I know after he left we found porn having to do with incest at my house and he had stolen some stuff from us. His mother really never spoke to me much or sent me any support to help me like she had promised. I probably did the wrong thing because looking back, he should have been charged but at the time I thought she was such a good friend. If you really want to adopt these other kids and are so worried this will effect you badly, maybe you could find a relative with no kids who can watch him 24/7 plus take him to the therapy he will need. I dont know. It might buy you the time you need. [/QUOTE]
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