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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 533921" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I can not imagine a social worker or any judge allowing this poster to adopt two more children knowing one of her children is a sexual predator. The mental health system expecting you to take the child home...sure! They don't know what to do with him. But I see it as working AGAINST her if she takes this dangerous child back.</p><p></p><p>Nobody in social services was angry at us for refusing to take our then child back to the house. I'm sure if we decided to adopt or foster again, we'd be allowed to do it. We are thinking of fostering special needs babies now that Jumper is almost sixteen. I don't know if it would be forgiven if a child predator who kills animals and shows every sign of child psychopathy had been allowed to stay with our kids and pets. Our license was not taken from us. We simply chose to give it up. We did not suffer an consequences because this child was a threat to not onlyl OUR kids, but to kids in school, in the neighborhood, in grocery stores...there is no guarantee that a child predator just does things to children in his family. I believe R. was trying to perp on a poor disabled child in school who had no speech. He latched onto him (this was before the jig was up and we didn't know he'd perped) and the teachers were so happy that this boy finally had a friend. He also had epileptic fits and R. reported a few of them. Who knows what he did to this poor boy? </p><p></p><p>For the sake of the community at large, as well as our family, R. needed to be self-contained. He tried to perp there too, but they have 24 hr. cameras running and they caught him a few times. One of the children who was in residential with him was terrified of him because he followed him around and had tried things with him in the bathrooms where there were no cameras.</p><p></p><p>The three signs of a budding psyschopath/antisocial personality disorder are:</p><p></p><p>1/Peeing and pooping at an inappropriate age and in inappropriate places (R. did this. We thought it was a new dog who was pooping all over)</p><p></p><p>2/harming animals (well, R. did that....)</p><p></p><p>3/Fascination with fire (R. set little fires to his rug)</p><p></p><p>If a child does all three behaviors, he is a serious threat.</p><p></p><p>I know a woman who had a foster child who burned her house down. They had to live in a hotel. The child is now sixteen, living elsewhere, and still laughs about the house he burned down. </p><p></p><p>Do not believe every child can be saved. God, I wish it were true, but it is not true. It doesn't matter how young the child is. Some have already seen too much or been damaged too terribly to get help. Weekly therapy is a joke for children like this.</p><p></p><p>I say, do not bring this child home no matter what. If you do, of course we will support your decision, but you will in my opinion likely be very, very sorry in the end.</p><p></p><p>Eight normal kids is a handful. Eight kids from foster care plus this very dangerous one...I don't know that even Wonderoman and Superman combined could keep everybody safe under those conditions. Having a child like that in your midst is very risky. There is no really good way to make sure he is not hurting anyone else. That's why I would not take him back.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 533921, member: 1550"] I can not imagine a social worker or any judge allowing this poster to adopt two more children knowing one of her children is a sexual predator. The mental health system expecting you to take the child home...sure! They don't know what to do with him. But I see it as working AGAINST her if she takes this dangerous child back. Nobody in social services was angry at us for refusing to take our then child back to the house. I'm sure if we decided to adopt or foster again, we'd be allowed to do it. We are thinking of fostering special needs babies now that Jumper is almost sixteen. I don't know if it would be forgiven if a child predator who kills animals and shows every sign of child psychopathy had been allowed to stay with our kids and pets. Our license was not taken from us. We simply chose to give it up. We did not suffer an consequences because this child was a threat to not onlyl OUR kids, but to kids in school, in the neighborhood, in grocery stores...there is no guarantee that a child predator just does things to children in his family. I believe R. was trying to perp on a poor disabled child in school who had no speech. He latched onto him (this was before the jig was up and we didn't know he'd perped) and the teachers were so happy that this boy finally had a friend. He also had epileptic fits and R. reported a few of them. Who knows what he did to this poor boy? For the sake of the community at large, as well as our family, R. needed to be self-contained. He tried to perp there too, but they have 24 hr. cameras running and they caught him a few times. One of the children who was in residential with him was terrified of him because he followed him around and had tried things with him in the bathrooms where there were no cameras. The three signs of a budding psyschopath/antisocial personality disorder are: 1/Peeing and pooping at an inappropriate age and in inappropriate places (R. did this. We thought it was a new dog who was pooping all over) 2/harming animals (well, R. did that....) 3/Fascination with fire (R. set little fires to his rug) If a child does all three behaviors, he is a serious threat. I know a woman who had a foster child who burned her house down. They had to live in a hotel. The child is now sixteen, living elsewhere, and still laughs about the house he burned down. Do not believe every child can be saved. God, I wish it were true, but it is not true. It doesn't matter how young the child is. Some have already seen too much or been damaged too terribly to get help. Weekly therapy is a joke for children like this. I say, do not bring this child home no matter what. If you do, of course we will support your decision, but you will in my opinion likely be very, very sorry in the end. Eight normal kids is a handful. Eight kids from foster care plus this very dangerous one...I don't know that even Wonderoman and Superman combined could keep everybody safe under those conditions. Having a child like that in your midst is very risky. There is no really good way to make sure he is not hurting anyone else. That's why I would not take him back. [/QUOTE]
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