crzymomof4
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I have never posted before but I do alot of support reading here. I just need some quick advice before school in the morning please. My kiya is a 7yr old biracial little girl who has a gorgous head of hair.. Now when it is not done and put into ponys she has a afro out of this world, well everytime i do her hair she pulls it out, i do it she pulls it out, i am pretty sure she does it cuz she knows it gets to me, cuz thats her goal in life to make me crazy... Anyways i always fix her hair cuz i dont want her to look crzy when she goes to school, trust me it looks wild, like shes crazy or something, but of course tonight she pulled not one pony out, not two but all of them, then she came to me and sat in front of me and i asked her what i could do for her and she said my hair, well this is all after i have told her 8 billion times that im tired of messing with it, and the next time im not going to fix it for her. Well tonight is the first time i didnt fix it and im not sure if i should just keep her home from school or just send her to school looking crazy. the only thing about the looking crazy is, i feel so bad and dont know if i could do it.... please help i dont know what to do.... I know this makes it hard not knowing her background so i will give a little. we have been told she has bipolar, odd, Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), depression. i think thats it. she is very very smart, manipulitive, spiteful, destructive, she steals, she lies, never has eye contact, out smarts all the shrinks we have taken her to, does the total opposite of what we tell her to do.. hope this helps.. oh yeah kiya always has the option to make the right choice and always choices not to and always has someone to blame for what happens when she doesnt make the right choice because it isnt her fault, just like her hair because i wouldnt fix it for her, not the fact that she pulled it out... thanks to anyone who can help