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<blockquote data-quote="tsp" data-source="post: 57865" data-attributes="member: 3882"><p>Thanks for the responses everyone. I was feeling pretty low yesterday. I have a good friend who has a child with High-Functioning Autism (HFA) so knows something about difficult children and she came over in the afternoon with coffee, croissants and a shoulder, so I'm feeling much better. </p><p></p><p>husband and I talked. He feels that he wouldnt' be helpful in the situation with ds right now, and I have to say that I agree. His way to support me is to take charge of our younger two when he gets home to give me some space and so I just have our difficult child to monitor. </p><p></p><p>I've put our son back to square one with the b-mod program with a total loss of all priveleges. He has a daily checklist of things he has to do to earn priveleges. We'll see how it goes. </p><p></p><p>I've made it clear to ds that he will not be allowed back into a vehicle until he can show that he knows that that kind of dangerous behavior is out of the question. That means no playdates or park visits. Not that he's earned them back yet, but still.</p><p></p><p>I'm not at a place yet where I think we need to go back to the clinical psychologist or behavioral specialist because I want to get back on track with the b-mod first. We bear some responsiblity for going off the program just because things were going so well. Hello? They were going well because of the program. I guess I've learned my lesson.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tsp, post: 57865, member: 3882"] Thanks for the responses everyone. I was feeling pretty low yesterday. I have a good friend who has a child with High-Functioning Autism (HFA) so knows something about difficult children and she came over in the afternoon with coffee, croissants and a shoulder, so I'm feeling much better. husband and I talked. He feels that he wouldnt' be helpful in the situation with ds right now, and I have to say that I agree. His way to support me is to take charge of our younger two when he gets home to give me some space and so I just have our difficult child to monitor. I've put our son back to square one with the b-mod program with a total loss of all priveleges. He has a daily checklist of things he has to do to earn priveleges. We'll see how it goes. I've made it clear to ds that he will not be allowed back into a vehicle until he can show that he knows that that kind of dangerous behavior is out of the question. That means no playdates or park visits. Not that he's earned them back yet, but still. I'm not at a place yet where I think we need to go back to the clinical psychologist or behavioral specialist because I want to get back on track with the b-mod first. We bear some responsiblity for going off the program just because things were going so well. Hello? They were going well because of the program. I guess I've learned my lesson. [/QUOTE]
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