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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 618689" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>I just want to point you down the road of detachment with adults...you wrote </p><p>"He was also told that he has a couple weeks to find his own place and there will be no excuses." I'd encourage you to simplify that...he just has to get out. That is simpler than "he has to find his own place, which he may or may not choose to do, and in fact may NOT do so that he can continue staying with you. All you can require and enact is that he get out. Did you set a date? If not you will find that weeks and months will pass and he will still be "looking for a place." Dates are critical when you get to the place of moving them out. </p><p></p><p>Read more: <a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/new-here-and-need-advice.56313/#ixzz2rnO799eF" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/new-here-and-need-advice.56313/#ixzz2rnO799eF</a></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 618689, member: 17269"] I just want to point you down the road of detachment with adults...you wrote "He was also told that he has a couple weeks to find his own place and there will be no excuses." I'd encourage you to simplify that...he just has to get out. That is simpler than "he has to find his own place, which he may or may not choose to do, and in fact may NOT do so that he can continue staying with you. All you can require and enact is that he get out. Did you set a date? If not you will find that weeks and months will pass and he will still be "looking for a place." Dates are critical when you get to the place of moving them out. Read more: [url]http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/new-here-and-need-advice.56313/#ixzz2rnO799eF[/url] [/QUOTE]
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