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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 530963" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Susie* makes a good point here Teatime - </p><p></p><p>WHen you are coming out of post op - You are NOT going to be in charge of your medications - you are going to be OUT OF IT. And then I guess my next question would be - WHAT IF - you're in so much pain that you can't think, and your son has already sold your pain medications? What happens to YOU at that point? YOu're in pain out of your mind, and you have to go to the ER - becasue you're in so much pain. You have to take your prescriptions with you - they count your pills - and you're short 0r OUT? They see this as drug seeking behaviors IN YOU......OR they report your son to the authorities for stealing narcotics. </p><p></p><p>It's a pretty - FAR OUT scenario - But again - like she said - He needs help and at this time - YOU are not in a position to give it. You need help too, and I think before this surgery goes on - you had really better take an honest hard look at the things being discussed here no matter how hurtful they are. No one is saying any of this to make you sadder or feel worse........at this point these things are only WHAT IFS ........but we say them because =======because we've lived them already and know they can be more than what if's - they can be reality and your house could be a part of that. </p><p></p><p>Janets boys? They are my loves - but and this is a BIG butt - SHE went through HELL ON EARTH with them. But it took them almost loosing her before anyone actually woke up and said OMG we could have lost Mom, I had better shape my butt up. In that respect? Yes she got lucky - but what they've put her through otherwise - wasn't lucky==it was unimaginable. And she's one of the toughest women I know. </p><p>Again - don't think anyone here is so DOWN on your kid that we don't know what's going on - HE"S FAMILY now - so that's not an issue......we GET HIM.....and we love him ------we just (like our own kids at times) don't like what he's doing. No shame in that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 530963, member: 4964"] Susie* makes a good point here Teatime - WHen you are coming out of post op - You are NOT going to be in charge of your medications - you are going to be OUT OF IT. And then I guess my next question would be - WHAT IF - you're in so much pain that you can't think, and your son has already sold your pain medications? What happens to YOU at that point? YOu're in pain out of your mind, and you have to go to the ER - becasue you're in so much pain. You have to take your prescriptions with you - they count your pills - and you're short 0r OUT? They see this as drug seeking behaviors IN YOU......OR they report your son to the authorities for stealing narcotics. It's a pretty - FAR OUT scenario - But again - like she said - He needs help and at this time - YOU are not in a position to give it. You need help too, and I think before this surgery goes on - you had really better take an honest hard look at the things being discussed here no matter how hurtful they are. No one is saying any of this to make you sadder or feel worse........at this point these things are only WHAT IFS ........but we say them because =======because we've lived them already and know they can be more than what if's - they can be reality and your house could be a part of that. Janets boys? They are my loves - but and this is a BIG butt - SHE went through HELL ON EARTH with them. But it took them almost loosing her before anyone actually woke up and said OMG we could have lost Mom, I had better shape my butt up. In that respect? Yes she got lucky - but what they've put her through otherwise - wasn't lucky==it was unimaginable. And she's one of the toughest women I know. Again - don't think anyone here is so DOWN on your kid that we don't know what's going on - HE"S FAMILY now - so that's not an issue......we GET HIM.....and we love him ------we just (like our own kids at times) don't like what he's doing. No shame in that. [/QUOTE]
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