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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 583141" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Welcome to our board AC. If you have read some of our stories then you know we have been there done that and understand what you are going through. We have anopther member here who hoefully will be coming along to welcome you that is going through much the same with her difficult child who is pregnant.</p><p></p><p>We have all come to understand that we know our difficult child's are lying when their lips are moving. You really can't believe a word he tells you. He is spending all his money on drugs. I would not allow your difficult child in your house while he is using. How sad that these two young people are bringing a baby into this world when they are in no position to be parents. I have been there done that also when my difficult child told us she was pregnant about 18 months ago. She was currently living in a sober house and we would not allow her to come back home. Thank goodness she decided very early on that she was not ready to have a baby and went to planned parenthood with our support. I don't know where she would be today without that.</p><p></p><p>The best thing you can do right now is not enable your son any longer. Do not allow him to come to your home. He will have to decide what he is going to do and how he is going to take care of his family. Many of us have had to turn our difficult children away and offer them support if they want to get help but nothing more. If it were me I would also try to get him to agree to a paternity test.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 583141, member: 59"] Welcome to our board AC. If you have read some of our stories then you know we have been there done that and understand what you are going through. We have anopther member here who hoefully will be coming along to welcome you that is going through much the same with her difficult child who is pregnant. We have all come to understand that we know our difficult child's are lying when their lips are moving. You really can't believe a word he tells you. He is spending all his money on drugs. I would not allow your difficult child in your house while he is using. How sad that these two young people are bringing a baby into this world when they are in no position to be parents. I have been there done that also when my difficult child told us she was pregnant about 18 months ago. She was currently living in a sober house and we would not allow her to come back home. Thank goodness she decided very early on that she was not ready to have a baby and went to planned parenthood with our support. I don't know where she would be today without that. The best thing you can do right now is not enable your son any longer. Do not allow him to come to your home. He will have to decide what he is going to do and how he is going to take care of his family. Many of us have had to turn our difficult children away and offer them support if they want to get help but nothing more. If it were me I would also try to get him to agree to a paternity test. [/QUOTE]
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