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<blockquote data-quote="Kathy813" data-source="post: 512501" data-attributes="member: 1967"><p>Yes, I would definitely start with a thorough search of his room. He has lost his right to privacy by having drugs in your car and smoking pot on your property. I agree with Nancy. If you find any signs of drug use, he loses his private room and bath and has to move upstairs where you can keep a better eye on things.</p><p></p><p>I totally understand the problem with taking away his access to his car. Where I live, there is very little public transportation. I would have a heart to heart talk at this point and explain that you are worried about his drug use even if he is a casual user. I would explain the liability issues that he would cause if he had an accident with your car while drunk or high. </p><p></p><p>If you find that the drug use is worse than you realize or if it continues, you will have to take action. Plan ahead so you will know what to do if the need arises an you can be proactive instead of reactive. Can your counselor recommend a good counselor that could work with your son and address the pot use?</p><p></p><p>I know how hard and scary this is for you. </p><p></p><p>{{{Hugs}}}</p><p></p><p>~Kathy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kathy813, post: 512501, member: 1967"] Yes, I would definitely start with a thorough search of his room. He has lost his right to privacy by having drugs in your car and smoking pot on your property. I agree with Nancy. If you find any signs of drug use, he loses his private room and bath and has to move upstairs where you can keep a better eye on things. I totally understand the problem with taking away his access to his car. Where I live, there is very little public transportation. I would have a heart to heart talk at this point and explain that you are worried about his drug use even if he is a casual user. I would explain the liability issues that he would cause if he had an accident with your car while drunk or high. If you find that the drug use is worse than you realize or if it continues, you will have to take action. Plan ahead so you will know what to do if the need arises an you can be proactive instead of reactive. Can your counselor recommend a good counselor that could work with your son and address the pot use? I know how hard and scary this is for you. {{{Hugs}}} ~Kathy [/QUOTE]
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