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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 505804" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I ditto buddy. A complete gyn exam is probably in order, most especially if this was her first boyfriend. </p><p></p><p>I know it's sad about missed career opportunities. But where there is the will there is usually always a way, so hopefully in the near future that will repair itself or lead on to better things. Hopefully the therapy and time apart will have the desired effect, since she ended it a couple of times that is a good sign it probably will. </p><p></p><p>I know the common theory of someone being attracted to an abuser is due to the fact that they have some deficit within themselves. While that may often be the case, it's not always the case. Sometimes it's just due to inexperience and being naive, or the abuser is quite skilled and doesn't show the behavior until they're certain they have a firm hold. </p><p></p><p>Hang in there. This is some rough stuff to have to watch her work through, I know.</p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 505804, member: 84"] I ditto buddy. A complete gyn exam is probably in order, most especially if this was her first boyfriend. I know it's sad about missed career opportunities. But where there is the will there is usually always a way, so hopefully in the near future that will repair itself or lead on to better things. Hopefully the therapy and time apart will have the desired effect, since she ended it a couple of times that is a good sign it probably will. I know the common theory of someone being attracted to an abuser is due to the fact that they have some deficit within themselves. While that may often be the case, it's not always the case. Sometimes it's just due to inexperience and being naive, or the abuser is quite skilled and doesn't show the behavior until they're certain they have a firm hold. Hang in there. This is some rough stuff to have to watch her work through, I know. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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