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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 430241"><p>Hi SRL,</p><p> I hope everything is better for you and your family! I had been debating if I am going to register on that site. I think at this point, I just have came to the conclusion that it is my fault and that he will change over time when we find what works for us, he will slow down/stop it. My grandfather at first said spank him,let him feel it,send him to his room,take away toys etc. (then said give him whatever he wants he is a baby,now says he is a little pain but nothing is wrong with him because some days hes" fine ", others can be for a couple days straight of fits). Dr's said "let him grow and socialize him". As I said in my first posts, he was/is socialized and even more talkative and interacts with adults/kids than my shy daughter! McDonalds,parks,swimming lessons,friends,family,stores,Elmo shows etc.Since August 2010, in all day pre-k and this April, Tball. My friend said "just sit in the doorway when he throws a fit until hes done,make him apologize,grounding etc". Most of his tantrums are still violent but have only been about an hour long .. but still bites himself daily when he gets mad even if theres no tantrum.Also can be 2/3 small tantrums in one day. Because it has never been 24 hours a day or everday (has been some days of good behavior,some other days he's not violent ,he has a nasty mouth and constant" if you dont let me do this ,i will do or not do something". And because he is good at school, we are in a catch 22. I just hope things do get better for him/Us. Reading all your problems here, makes mine seem as if I am complaining over a little thing. I do know a 5 year old biting and hitting his head when he is mad is not normal, thats normal for toddlers. Maybe this is just spoiled syndrome/temper. I guess it will take time to see. Thank you and everyone else here and Im praying for all of you. All this forums advice and just listening to me has made me feel very welcome, relieved, and hopeful. Thank you!</p><p>Confused</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 430241"] Hi SRL, I hope everything is better for you and your family! I had been debating if I am going to register on that site. I think at this point, I just have came to the conclusion that it is my fault and that he will change over time when we find what works for us, he will slow down/stop it. My grandfather at first said spank him,let him feel it,send him to his room,take away toys etc. (then said give him whatever he wants he is a baby,now says he is a little pain but nothing is wrong with him because some days hes" fine ", others can be for a couple days straight of fits). Dr's said "let him grow and socialize him". As I said in my first posts, he was/is socialized and even more talkative and interacts with adults/kids than my shy daughter! McDonalds,parks,swimming lessons,friends,family,stores,Elmo shows etc.Since August 2010, in all day pre-k and this April, Tball. My friend said "just sit in the doorway when he throws a fit until hes done,make him apologize,grounding etc". Most of his tantrums are still violent but have only been about an hour long .. but still bites himself daily when he gets mad even if theres no tantrum.Also can be 2/3 small tantrums in one day. Because it has never been 24 hours a day or everday (has been some days of good behavior,some other days he's not violent ,he has a nasty mouth and constant" if you dont let me do this ,i will do or not do something". And because he is good at school, we are in a catch 22. I just hope things do get better for him/Us. Reading all your problems here, makes mine seem as if I am complaining over a little thing. I do know a 5 year old biting and hitting his head when he is mad is not normal, thats normal for toddlers. Maybe this is just spoiled syndrome/temper. I guess it will take time to see. Thank you and everyone else here and Im praying for all of you. All this forums advice and just listening to me has made me feel very welcome, relieved, and hopeful. Thank you! Confused [/QUOTE]
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