Hi Everyone, I'm new to the OD world. I'm 45 with my own children. I'm now faced with with my girlfriends 4 yr old son who may have OD. I've been with her for 3 months, we are statring to spend more time together especially with our children together, my 10 yr old son her 6 yr old son and her 4 yr son who is defiant. It's my 1st encounter with trying to manage him. My g friend is very supportive. I'm also trying to support her and not running from her we are in love. I don't want this to come between us. Any support and help would be apprieciated.