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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 697912" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Thea:</p><p></p><p>I agree with Mof. Read my posts on here and the posts of others. </p><p></p><p>I too was afraid to kick my son out. Terrified actually. He is used to a nice fluffy bed and all his favorite things in the fridge. Oh and he likes his TV shows and computer games too. But we did. We said rehab or get out. He chose rehab. This was not our first go round either. After rehab we knew he could not come back because we have done that before. </p><p></p><p>Nothing changes if nothing changes.</p><p></p><p>We had to change. He wasn't going to. He's now in Florida going through the system. Will he get it? I don't know. I hope so but my home is now peaceful.</p><p></p><p>He is disrespecting you. She is also but some girls (even smart ones) will do anything for their "man".</p><p></p><p>I would suggest seeing a therapist to help you navigate how to handle this situation. We went once and were told that if he can't follow our rules - I typed them up and he laughed and BROKE every single one - then he needed to go. </p><p></p><p>It's not how it's supposed to be. It's not what we wanted. But it's what had to happen with him. </p><p></p><p>My son is white as snow and smart and has two loving parents and lives in a neighborhood once voted #1 to raise a family so he has no excuses but sure blames us for everything.</p><p></p><p>Know that you are NOT alone but you have the right to a peaceful home and your sanity. </p><p></p><p>Do you want to be doing this in ten years with him? You will be if you don't change how you are handling him. That is what made me make a move.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 697912, member: 15032"] Thea: I agree with Mof. Read my posts on here and the posts of others. I too was afraid to kick my son out. Terrified actually. He is used to a nice fluffy bed and all his favorite things in the fridge. Oh and he likes his TV shows and computer games too. But we did. We said rehab or get out. He chose rehab. This was not our first go round either. After rehab we knew he could not come back because we have done that before. Nothing changes if nothing changes. We had to change. He wasn't going to. He's now in Florida going through the system. Will he get it? I don't know. I hope so but my home is now peaceful. He is disrespecting you. She is also but some girls (even smart ones) will do anything for their "man". I would suggest seeing a therapist to help you navigate how to handle this situation. We went once and were told that if he can't follow our rules - I typed them up and he laughed and BROKE every single one - then he needed to go. It's not how it's supposed to be. It's not what we wanted. But it's what had to happen with him. My son is white as snow and smart and has two loving parents and lives in a neighborhood once voted #1 to raise a family so he has no excuses but sure blames us for everything. Know that you are NOT alone but you have the right to a peaceful home and your sanity. Do you want to be doing this in ten years with him? You will be if you don't change how you are handling him. That is what made me make a move. [/QUOTE]
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