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<blockquote data-quote="Angel-In-Need" data-source="post: 153721" data-attributes="member: 5244"><p>Thank you for your replys.</p><p> </p><p>Mum still isnt in a place to look here. As she said tonight when i got home from work, he totally disempowered her last night and it sucked all she had. </p><p> </p><p>He is just not logical right now. he is blaming all of us for everything that is wrong in his life, he is just so angry, and blows up at the slightest thing. The whole family is on tender hooks. </p><p> </p><p>In this house there is my mum, her fiance, and my two younger brother who are 12 and 14. This is effecting them alot, as he just goes off at them swearing, and calling them for everything. He even hurt my 14 year old brother physically by snatching the guitar from his hands the other morning, not meaning too id say but he did. It was all swollen and bruised. I know he has pushed and been physical with his girlfriend once. Very regretful, as they always are. Last night in his fit of rage he said he would move out, but there doesnt sem to be much moving. </p><p> </p><p>My mum isnt strong enough to kick him out, we talked about this last night, and we all agreed he needs to go. The stress he is putting on everyone. I mean my husband and my two children who are 3 and almost one years old, are here alot, and we are greatly affected. </p><p> </p><p>It is so hard to talk to mum too at times, she is just so lost in this and doesnt know where too turn too? What is this alnon you mention?? I am in Australia too, i have noticed some of you use the spelling MOM for mum, does this mean you guys are in the US?</p><p> </p><p>Ahhhhh this is horrible. I sat staring at his picture last night just wondering where he has gone? what happened? </p><p> </p><p>I feel guilty as he says it is my fault too as i left when i was a teenager. Yes, i left but i was only doing what we are all to do as we grow. I went off and lived my life. Worked, travelled, found my best friend and life partner and had 2 kids. Golly i grew up in the same house he did, yes it wasnt easy, at times it was damn hard BUT..... i truly believe it is all in the decisions we make there on. Know what I mean??</p><p> </p><p>I had the same offers of drugs/smokes/drink and so on, yet i said no. As cleshe as that sounds i did. I wanted more from my life.</p><p> </p><p>ahhh sighs, im just rambling .</p><p> </p><p>Ill maybe post in the other section when i can. Between work, kids and this brother issue time is short.</p><p> </p><p>Thank you again everyone. im glad i found it here. Now to just get mum here.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Angel-In-Need, post: 153721, member: 5244"] Thank you for your replys. Mum still isnt in a place to look here. As she said tonight when i got home from work, he totally disempowered her last night and it sucked all she had. He is just not logical right now. he is blaming all of us for everything that is wrong in his life, he is just so angry, and blows up at the slightest thing. The whole family is on tender hooks. In this house there is my mum, her fiance, and my two younger brother who are 12 and 14. This is effecting them alot, as he just goes off at them swearing, and calling them for everything. He even hurt my 14 year old brother physically by snatching the guitar from his hands the other morning, not meaning too id say but he did. It was all swollen and bruised. I know he has pushed and been physical with his girlfriend once. Very regretful, as they always are. Last night in his fit of rage he said he would move out, but there doesnt sem to be much moving. My mum isnt strong enough to kick him out, we talked about this last night, and we all agreed he needs to go. The stress he is putting on everyone. I mean my husband and my two children who are 3 and almost one years old, are here alot, and we are greatly affected. It is so hard to talk to mum too at times, she is just so lost in this and doesnt know where too turn too? What is this alnon you mention?? I am in Australia too, i have noticed some of you use the spelling MOM for mum, does this mean you guys are in the US? Ahhhhh this is horrible. I sat staring at his picture last night just wondering where he has gone? what happened? I feel guilty as he says it is my fault too as i left when i was a teenager. Yes, i left but i was only doing what we are all to do as we grow. I went off and lived my life. Worked, travelled, found my best friend and life partner and had 2 kids. Golly i grew up in the same house he did, yes it wasnt easy, at times it was damn hard BUT..... i truly believe it is all in the decisions we make there on. Know what I mean?? I had the same offers of drugs/smokes/drink and so on, yet i said no. As cleshe as that sounds i did. I wanted more from my life. ahhh sighs, im just rambling . Ill maybe post in the other section when i can. Between work, kids and this brother issue time is short. Thank you again everyone. im glad i found it here. Now to just get mum here..... [/QUOTE]
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