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New to PE ... not sure what the heck will happen
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 533310" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Wow Linda I cannot believe they are almost 18! It seems impossible. Of course I still think of Duckie as 3 and thank you as 7...lol. </p><p></p><p>Your situation is so unique. I dont think any of us are in quite the same situation as you because of the difficulties the twins have and have had for so many years. I would hate for you to have to give up your house after you just did all that work to it not long ago but then again it may be in your best interest health-wise to be near your family. I know you did all that work so your house would meet your health needs but do you have anyone close to you to give you the help you will probably need? I wish I could get that sort of reno on my house. </p><p></p><p>I am so sorry that KT continues to be so self sabotaging. What can they do for her? I dont exactly know what being a vulnerable adult will open up for them. </p><p></p><p>I know some of us stay close to our kids, others dont. You know I am still close. I assume I always will be. I didnt think it would be this way though so you never know what can happen. I honestly thought my kids would open the door on their 18th birthday and run for the hills but I havent been able to run them off with a tank so I guess Im stuck with them for life...lol. I think you are just going to have to play it by ear for the first year and see how that goes and then make a long term plan. Im not sure you can say right now how they are going to be. Actually, they really wont finish cooking until they are around 24/25. I know, probably not what you wanted to hear right? </p><p></p><p>I dont know what to tell you sweetie...but welcome to PE.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 533310, member: 1514"] Wow Linda I cannot believe they are almost 18! It seems impossible. Of course I still think of Duckie as 3 and thank you as 7...lol. Your situation is so unique. I dont think any of us are in quite the same situation as you because of the difficulties the twins have and have had for so many years. I would hate for you to have to give up your house after you just did all that work to it not long ago but then again it may be in your best interest health-wise to be near your family. I know you did all that work so your house would meet your health needs but do you have anyone close to you to give you the help you will probably need? I wish I could get that sort of reno on my house. I am so sorry that KT continues to be so self sabotaging. What can they do for her? I dont exactly know what being a vulnerable adult will open up for them. I know some of us stay close to our kids, others dont. You know I am still close. I assume I always will be. I didnt think it would be this way though so you never know what can happen. I honestly thought my kids would open the door on their 18th birthday and run for the hills but I havent been able to run them off with a tank so I guess Im stuck with them for life...lol. I think you are just going to have to play it by ear for the first year and see how that goes and then make a long term plan. Im not sure you can say right now how they are going to be. Actually, they really wont finish cooking until they are around 24/25. I know, probably not what you wanted to hear right? I dont know what to tell you sweetie...but welcome to PE. [/QUOTE]
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