reeserayjakeandjosh
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I found this site thanks to a never ending quest to understand and find help for my little guy. Jakie is 3 yrs old and we have notice he was "differant" from infancy. I am the mother to 4 children Jakie being #3. We live in VERY RURAL community in Northern Ontario which is closest to there fathers work post. I am alone with them 5 days a week. We have no family dr due to a dr shortage and there are not phycologists or therepists closer than 4 hours away. This also an all french community and they are very intolerant of me and my children for being English. I have been asked not to bring my 3 yr back to the post office, the local pharmacy and i don't dare take him to the grocery alone. His behavior is that much of an issue. I cry myself to sleep everynight becuase i feel like i failed him somewhere. He never been abused in any way. My ex did have behavoir issues and has adhd. He was very abused and neglected as a child. im not sure if any of his issues mentally may have affected our son. Jakie has anything that would make a child happy. I am a stay at home mom and he has all the attention and affection a child could want but its never enough. HE has a very extreme temper i have physcials scars from him biting me( me only ) when he's mad. last week i told him no he couldnt have my coffe and he bit me til blood came from my arm. he hits me screams at me throws things at me and this is several times an hour. anytime i do something the least bit unnerving to him. i can put in the wrong dvd and it resorts to full explosions. he breaks all of his toys and anything left down in his reach
if he is left un attended for me to go to the restroom he finds something to destroy. if im going he pours out anything he can find in the cabinets just and then shows me what he did with a smile, he finds drinking glasses and he throws them on the floor on purpose to watch them break. meal time brings me to tears. he knockes the plate in the floor full of food with angry screams or throws it at his 8 month old little brother. if he's in a tantrum and his brother is near or smiles at him he hits him throws stuff at him. if you can name it jakie does it during a day. this doesnt count outings. My friends will no longer come around they refer to him as the spawn of satan and a demon seed. i am at my wits end. He goes non stop all day long like he's on a constant sugar high even tho theres little in his diet. he doesnt sleep. bed times are another nightmare he usually screams til he makes himself vomit. i have trie time outs, i have tried removing toys i have tried possitve reinforcement i just dont know what to do anymore. Please can anyone help me give me some advice? thanks so much. I am sorry for the long post its just hard to describe jakie in short detail. thanks again
if he is left un attended for me to go to the restroom he finds something to destroy. if im going he pours out anything he can find in the cabinets just and then shows me what he did with a smile, he finds drinking glasses and he throws them on the floor on purpose to watch them break. meal time brings me to tears. he knockes the plate in the floor full of food with angry screams or throws it at his 8 month old little brother. if he's in a tantrum and his brother is near or smiles at him he hits him throws stuff at him. if you can name it jakie does it during a day. this doesnt count outings. My friends will no longer come around they refer to him as the spawn of satan and a demon seed. i am at my wits end. He goes non stop all day long like he's on a constant sugar high even tho theres little in his diet. he doesnt sleep. bed times are another nightmare he usually screams til he makes himself vomit. i have trie time outs, i have tried removing toys i have tried possitve reinforcement i just dont know what to do anymore. Please can anyone help me give me some advice? thanks so much. I am sorry for the long post its just hard to describe jakie in short detail. thanks again