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New, visting adult difficult children and preventing destabilization
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 396048"><p>This is my thought, and sorry I am so late in coming to this. I don't think I would surprise her as I suspect that could throw her for a loop even if it is a positive surprise. I would call her, tell her you would like to visit if she wants you to, and if so when would be good for her. Give her some control over the visit. If she is not ready for you to visit then accept that that is where she is and she will let you know when she is ready.</p><p></p><p>Good luck and let us know how it turns out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 396048"] This is my thought, and sorry I am so late in coming to this. I don't think I would surprise her as I suspect that could throw her for a loop even if it is a positive surprise. I would call her, tell her you would like to visit if she wants you to, and if so when would be good for her. Give her some control over the visit. If she is not ready for you to visit then accept that that is where she is and she will let you know when she is ready. Good luck and let us know how it turns out. [/QUOTE]
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