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<blockquote data-quote="mof" data-source="post: 699007" data-attributes="member: 20533"><p>We have house rules...more so now that our son has moved home on contract. When he was into drugs I didn't even know some of the guys he had over were drug addicts...we are talking preppy kids.</p><p></p><p>When it all came out..you. an see my signature...He is home. We have other children...He can have a friend over when we are home and only in our downstairs.</p><p>This is normal I think!</p><p></p><p>First...A 19 year old is still a kid, especially when he does not act like an adult. He may not be doing "kid" things...but he is not a mature adult.</p><p></p><p>If he hasn't finished school, can't work, cause don't you need a ged? What is he doing? That is the crux of your problem....idle time = not great stuff.</p><p></p><p>It's hard to t hi k about, but what is your boundaries when he is arrested? Maybe he has to sell the truck for rent money to you for now...now that your asserting your rules...where do you want this all to go?</p><p></p><p>It's really about you and your comfort level. I'm guessing his Mother is not able to assist you. It's not what rules you think are appropriate...it's what you want your home to be like.</p><p></p><p>Yes...call 911 if you ever feel afraid or threatened.</p><p></p><p>You have grown so much in this short time! Time for YOU to no longer live in fear and stress!!</p><p></p><p>You go!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mof, post: 699007, member: 20533"] We have house rules...more so now that our son has moved home on contract. When he was into drugs I didn't even know some of the guys he had over were drug addicts...we are talking preppy kids. When it all came out..you. an see my signature...He is home. We have other children...He can have a friend over when we are home and only in our downstairs. This is normal I think! First...A 19 year old is still a kid, especially when he does not act like an adult. He may not be doing "kid" things...but he is not a mature adult. If he hasn't finished school, can't work, cause don't you need a ged? What is he doing? That is the crux of your problem....idle time = not great stuff. It's hard to t hi k about, but what is your boundaries when he is arrested? Maybe he has to sell the truck for rent money to you for now...now that your asserting your rules...where do you want this all to go? It's really about you and your comfort level. I'm guessing his Mother is not able to assist you. It's not what rules you think are appropriate...it's what you want your home to be like. Yes...call 911 if you ever feel afraid or threatened. You have grown so much in this short time! Time for YOU to no longer live in fear and stress!! You go!! [/QUOTE]
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