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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 465427" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>Hello, and Welcome!</p><p></p><p>Many, many issues are genetic. Dad with issues + Mom with issues = High probability of child with issues. Were you ever diagnosed with anything? Did you ever seek formal treatment? If not, in hindsight do you see possible diagnosis for yourself? Has your ex been diagnosed with anything? After getting some distance from her do you see any possible diagnosis? These "possible dxes" for you and biomom are a good place to start researching. With my kids I mostly saw (when they cropped up) the same issues that I or my family members have. Their father had no known obvious issues (I was also to close to see them). However, when he left, more information materialized, and more and more became clear. I began to look at my kids through the filter of both of us, and it makes more sense now.</p><p></p><p>So anyway, like MWM, suggested, start lining up your appointments for when your insurance kicks in. That way you won't have to wait any longer.</p><p></p><p>If you haven't already read it, pick up a copy of <u>T</u><u>he Explosive Child</u> by Ross Green. You might find some great insights in there.</p><p></p><p>Don't ever underestimate hope. It's a good thing. It gets us through yet another day. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 465427, member: 11965"] Hello, and Welcome! Many, many issues are genetic. Dad with issues + Mom with issues = High probability of child with issues. Were you ever diagnosed with anything? Did you ever seek formal treatment? If not, in hindsight do you see possible diagnosis for yourself? Has your ex been diagnosed with anything? After getting some distance from her do you see any possible diagnosis? These "possible dxes" for you and biomom are a good place to start researching. With my kids I mostly saw (when they cropped up) the same issues that I or my family members have. Their father had no known obvious issues (I was also to close to see them). However, when he left, more information materialized, and more and more became clear. I began to look at my kids through the filter of both of us, and it makes more sense now. So anyway, like MWM, suggested, start lining up your appointments for when your insurance kicks in. That way you won't have to wait any longer. If you haven't already read it, pick up a copy of [U]T[/U][U]he Explosive Child[/U] by Ross Green. You might find some great insights in there. Don't ever underestimate hope. It's a good thing. It gets us through yet another day. :) [/QUOTE]
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