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<blockquote data-quote="freakchick39" data-source="post: 614740" data-attributes="member: 17466"><p>thank you recovering... I did read the article in your signature ...I will have to read it again it was a lot to take in and retain. my son does receive ssi. it was another tough battle I waged for both our benefits long ago. I also read an article somewhere else in here on odd and coping with it and did see a couple different steps I havent taken yet and am a little more informed about odd and how to react to a child with it.. or I should say adult. I guess what I struggle with is definitely setting boundries. I am so tired of this life I tend to just give up and let him do or say what he wants so I can avoid a big fight . I think that the crying is useless cause he just doesnt seem to care. but sometimes I just cant stop the flood. also I am really unsure of what kind of concequences I can implement at 18 ? what is there? and typically with odd adhd and bipolar ( you may or may not know ) if I were to start implementing and sticking to boundries and concequences would he most likely resort to physical violence again? I guess in essence I am pretty much in fear of him. not so much that he will hurt me. I think on some level because of a very few times he has hit me in the past , he knows that undoubtedly I will kick his a** and if he called the cops , as once before , theyd more than likely congradulate me and leave....but more so destruction of property...this is well used to be common but has dramatically diminished. do you think he wi start destroying the apt and his and my belongings again? maybe if the puppy happens to be In his way, hurt her?..... anyway if you have suggestions on concequences..I have some boundries already in mind id like to start with. ooh and also should I only assert one or two at a time like when he was little or just lay it all out</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="freakchick39, post: 614740, member: 17466"] thank you recovering... I did read the article in your signature ...I will have to read it again it was a lot to take in and retain. my son does receive ssi. it was another tough battle I waged for both our benefits long ago. I also read an article somewhere else in here on odd and coping with it and did see a couple different steps I havent taken yet and am a little more informed about odd and how to react to a child with it.. or I should say adult. I guess what I struggle with is definitely setting boundries. I am so tired of this life I tend to just give up and let him do or say what he wants so I can avoid a big fight . I think that the crying is useless cause he just doesnt seem to care. but sometimes I just cant stop the flood. also I am really unsure of what kind of concequences I can implement at 18 ? what is there? and typically with odd adhd and bipolar ( you may or may not know ) if I were to start implementing and sticking to boundries and concequences would he most likely resort to physical violence again? I guess in essence I am pretty much in fear of him. not so much that he will hurt me. I think on some level because of a very few times he has hit me in the past , he knows that undoubtedly I will kick his a** and if he called the cops , as once before , theyd more than likely congradulate me and leave....but more so destruction of property...this is well used to be common but has dramatically diminished. do you think he wi start destroying the apt and his and my belongings again? maybe if the puppy happens to be In his way, hurt her?..... anyway if you have suggestions on concequences..I have some boundries already in mind id like to start with. ooh and also should I only assert one or two at a time like when he was little or just lay it all out [/QUOTE]
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