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<blockquote data-quote="freakchick39" data-source="post: 614769" data-attributes="member: 17466"><p>Well my son came home today . Give me hugs that he missed me and seemed genuinely happy to see me. By the time he got home already had a list boundaries and goals he needs to complete to start taking steps to better himself and take some responsibility. he needs to make a doctor appointment on his own to address insomnia hes had for a while. he needs to go get a picture ID so he can then find the next ged test and location and go take the test. also to clean and keep clean his room. I don't want to start with too much and be overwhelming . my lisf of boundries is kinda short but again dont want to pile on too much . I kinda mentioned a little about it but havent told him or shown him the list yet cause its chicken scratch has to be renwritten and then decide if im gonna read it to him or just give it to him . I mention that if its too much for him to respect me his animal and my few requests that we will need to discuss options for him moving out . that I wouldnt leave him high and dry and he will have his whole ssi check with him when he leaves. he said i dont know that he really is working on stoping behaviors. I told him I dont expect it over night but that there will be one concequence to start with , its the only thing I can think of that will affect him, and that is for every time he exibits a behvior on my list I will take $10 out of the money i give him each month and use it to make a purchase for the house. now I just need to go over it with him and actually do what ive set out to do. at this point the puppy peed in his bed and I heard him smack her 4 times and yell at her so she is in here with me. I told him I will find another home for her at the drop of a dime if he continues to abuse her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="freakchick39, post: 614769, member: 17466"] Well my son came home today . Give me hugs that he missed me and seemed genuinely happy to see me. By the time he got home already had a list boundaries and goals he needs to complete to start taking steps to better himself and take some responsibility. he needs to make a doctor appointment on his own to address insomnia hes had for a while. he needs to go get a picture ID so he can then find the next ged test and location and go take the test. also to clean and keep clean his room. I don't want to start with too much and be overwhelming . my lisf of boundries is kinda short but again dont want to pile on too much . I kinda mentioned a little about it but havent told him or shown him the list yet cause its chicken scratch has to be renwritten and then decide if im gonna read it to him or just give it to him . I mention that if its too much for him to respect me his animal and my few requests that we will need to discuss options for him moving out . that I wouldnt leave him high and dry and he will have his whole ssi check with him when he leaves. he said i dont know that he really is working on stoping behaviors. I told him I dont expect it over night but that there will be one concequence to start with , its the only thing I can think of that will affect him, and that is for every time he exibits a behvior on my list I will take $10 out of the money i give him each month and use it to make a purchase for the house. now I just need to go over it with him and actually do what ive set out to do. at this point the puppy peed in his bed and I heard him smack her 4 times and yell at her so she is in here with me. I told him I will find another home for her at the drop of a dime if he continues to abuse her. [/QUOTE]
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