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<blockquote data-quote="freakchick39" data-source="post: 614830" data-attributes="member: 17466"><p>thank you... I am sorry that you me or anyone really has to go through things like what seems to be the uniform behaviors of mental illness as a whole. I have worried and watched my son closely about possibly having more and worse diagnosis, symptoms of things more than hes already got. he used to be physically violent, not directly at me but with property and himself. hes not anymore . the most I have to worry about is slamming doors and making neighbors mad. and as far as our princess puppy goes (see my avatar) <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> he isnt like , beating on her ...he is "spanking" her. but he does it because he thinks hes a know it all and that in order to train a pittbull you have to exert and prove dominance. (those are his words) but I will not allow him to discipline her using violence no matter how minor it is. I have been trying to drill into his head what he is doing to her in the long run and what to expect her to become if he continues . but as of this point she and her pen have been removed from his room all together and the only contact ive allowed him to have is to take her out because I am not able to walk up n down stairs without holding the railing and I almost fell down the stairs last time I took her out. I know that eventually when she is potty trained and listening a little better he will see i was right and he didnt need to touch her to train her. I am in love with the lil pup so giving her up isnt an option. also terrified if she would end up in worse hands. but I have put an end to that issue. my son and his behaviors are not only because of his illness and I am painfulky aware of this. a lot im shamed to admitt is my fault for allowing him to treat me this way for so many years and not putting an end to it when he was still impressionable to be able to. he doesnt act this way with other adults. well unless they are an authoritive figure. he goes to his friends and their parents praise him and how well mannered he is. its prettt much not till I walk in that the anger and ignorance starts.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="freakchick39, post: 614830, member: 17466"] thank you... I am sorry that you me or anyone really has to go through things like what seems to be the uniform behaviors of mental illness as a whole. I have worried and watched my son closely about possibly having more and worse diagnosis, symptoms of things more than hes already got. he used to be physically violent, not directly at me but with property and himself. hes not anymore . the most I have to worry about is slamming doors and making neighbors mad. and as far as our princess puppy goes (see my avatar) :) he isnt like , beating on her ...he is "spanking" her. but he does it because he thinks hes a know it all and that in order to train a pittbull you have to exert and prove dominance. (those are his words) but I will not allow him to discipline her using violence no matter how minor it is. I have been trying to drill into his head what he is doing to her in the long run and what to expect her to become if he continues . but as of this point she and her pen have been removed from his room all together and the only contact ive allowed him to have is to take her out because I am not able to walk up n down stairs without holding the railing and I almost fell down the stairs last time I took her out. I know that eventually when she is potty trained and listening a little better he will see i was right and he didnt need to touch her to train her. I am in love with the lil pup so giving her up isnt an option. also terrified if she would end up in worse hands. but I have put an end to that issue. my son and his behaviors are not only because of his illness and I am painfulky aware of this. a lot im shamed to admitt is my fault for allowing him to treat me this way for so many years and not putting an end to it when he was still impressionable to be able to. he doesnt act this way with other adults. well unless they are an authoritive figure. he goes to his friends and their parents praise him and how well mannered he is. its prettt much not till I walk in that the anger and ignorance starts. [/QUOTE]
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