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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 614835" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Freakchick, it's not your fault that your son treats you that way. Punishing my son never changed him. He just got sneakier. And when he is under stress, he is as nasty as ever...it is something he does not seem able to control, but it is plain scary. His outlook on life ("its other people's faults, never mine") is scary. NOTHING is his fault. He is never sorry because we made him do it, whatever it is. Kind of strange difficult child thinking. But it's up to us, once they are grown, whether or not we will or won't be abused in our own house. </p><p>As for the dog, sounds like a sweetie. I love pitties! I can tell you are taking good care of him. I just wouldn't let Son ever be in charge of the puppy. I'd make him keep the puppy downstairs and never in his room, for the puppy's sake. You have no idea what he is doing to the poor pup when you can't see. </p><p>I hope my son never gets a pet again. He only got the cat because his ex-wife brought it home without his permission. My son greatly dislikes animals, which I consider another red flag. I am not comfortable with people who don't like animals...maybe it's just a quirk I have.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 614835, member: 1550"] Freakchick, it's not your fault that your son treats you that way. Punishing my son never changed him. He just got sneakier. And when he is under stress, he is as nasty as ever...it is something he does not seem able to control, but it is plain scary. His outlook on life ("its other people's faults, never mine") is scary. NOTHING is his fault. He is never sorry because we made him do it, whatever it is. Kind of strange difficult child thinking. But it's up to us, once they are grown, whether or not we will or won't be abused in our own house. As for the dog, sounds like a sweetie. I love pitties! I can tell you are taking good care of him. I just wouldn't let Son ever be in charge of the puppy. I'd make him keep the puppy downstairs and never in his room, for the puppy's sake. You have no idea what he is doing to the poor pup when you can't see. I hope my son never gets a pet again. He only got the cat because his ex-wife brought it home without his permission. My son greatly dislikes animals, which I consider another red flag. I am not comfortable with people who don't like animals...maybe it's just a quirk I have. [/QUOTE]
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