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<blockquote data-quote="freakchick39" data-source="post: 614864" data-attributes="member: 17466"><p>yea, I don't know even know what to say right now.. i got on here, becuause i love him, and i want so bad for things to get better and to strengthen our relationship, and even though he wont do a bit of work ( he refuses to speak at counseling and wont take medications) .. i still do everything i can and read all the info i can get my hands on hoping i guess ill find that magic cure. . hes so mean. i cant open my mouth about anything without him getting pissed and complaining and saying i am "<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />ing" and blah blah blah... HE is so tired of this every day.. just got done arguing with him yet again, a minute ago. now i am drained, emotionally dead i feel, and who really cares if i read or come to this site to learn, or do anything at all for that matter because god its so clear nothing will help. i told him , yet again, that if he hates it so bad here he needs to move out. that he has enough money. now , for the first time ,he said hes been looking for a place. i said then fine.. you got 30 days to get out, hows that? he said, what are you my manager , i told him no but i am not gonna keep letting him treat me like sh** and live here as long as he wants. he said its me treating him that way... im tired. so tired. and then he complained to me that i dont need to be posting so many pictures of HIS puppy on facebook.. its HIS. yet it was me ALONE that just got back from the vet with her getting her cast changed. it was me emailing all the rescue groups and organizations till i found one to donate to her vet bill to get her fixed.. it is me that protects her from him.. im sorry, i am rambling now. im just so upset. and i want to cry, tears are welling up in my eyes,but im tired of crying , my boyfriends tired of me crying and my son just doesnt give two craps if i cry. </p><p>as far as family traits, his dad i am told had adhd. other than that no significant illness in his family that i am aware of. it all comes from my family. i have bipolar, ptsd and get severely depressed and suicidal at times.. but no angry mean behavior.. i go sad, i go extra happy , i go sad , extra happy. my son goes sad, extra mean... bipolar and major depression are all throughout my family history. and i have a cousin with aspergers syndrome. </p><p>k, well. thank u, again , all of you.. im going to go to bed.. its the only place i can be at peace , until he comes to wake me up for something stupid.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="freakchick39, post: 614864, member: 17466"] yea, I don't know even know what to say right now.. i got on here, becuause i love him, and i want so bad for things to get better and to strengthen our relationship, and even though he wont do a bit of work ( he refuses to speak at counseling and wont take medications) .. i still do everything i can and read all the info i can get my hands on hoping i guess ill find that magic cure. . hes so mean. i cant open my mouth about anything without him getting pissed and complaining and saying i am ":censored2:ing" and blah blah blah... HE is so tired of this every day.. just got done arguing with him yet again, a minute ago. now i am drained, emotionally dead i feel, and who really cares if i read or come to this site to learn, or do anything at all for that matter because god its so clear nothing will help. i told him , yet again, that if he hates it so bad here he needs to move out. that he has enough money. now , for the first time ,he said hes been looking for a place. i said then fine.. you got 30 days to get out, hows that? he said, what are you my manager , i told him no but i am not gonna keep letting him treat me like sh** and live here as long as he wants. he said its me treating him that way... im tired. so tired. and then he complained to me that i dont need to be posting so many pictures of HIS puppy on facebook.. its HIS. yet it was me ALONE that just got back from the vet with her getting her cast changed. it was me emailing all the rescue groups and organizations till i found one to donate to her vet bill to get her fixed.. it is me that protects her from him.. im sorry, i am rambling now. im just so upset. and i want to cry, tears are welling up in my eyes,but im tired of crying , my boyfriends tired of me crying and my son just doesnt give two craps if i cry. as far as family traits, his dad i am told had adhd. other than that no significant illness in his family that i am aware of. it all comes from my family. i have bipolar, ptsd and get severely depressed and suicidal at times.. but no angry mean behavior.. i go sad, i go extra happy , i go sad , extra happy. my son goes sad, extra mean... bipolar and major depression are all throughout my family history. and i have a cousin with aspergers syndrome. k, well. thank u, again , all of you.. im going to go to bed.. its the only place i can be at peace , until he comes to wake me up for something stupid. [/QUOTE]
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