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<blockquote data-quote="w_woody" data-source="post: 296369" data-attributes="member: 7714"><p>Jumped the gun a bit...after a good week D slipped a bit today. Nothing horrible but it was deffinately triggered by my wife's presence. Anytime she comes near him he gets aggressive, I also noticed he does this with his BM and BGM because he got aggressive around them as well during his birthday visitation. Today he pushed our 2 year old down with his foot after my wife entered the living room, while I was in the kitchen for no reason. Later he became upset and lashed out while we where at a local park threatening to kick another child in the head...I told him to sit down and cool off...but the second my back was turned he hoped up and tried to run off. I didn't have to chase him, because I warned him that if I did the consequences would be severe. He stopped and sat down. </p><p> </p><p>These behaviors always occur when he knows I can't see or thinks I can't see him. He's fine as long as my wife is not in the room, but when she's around him his tension level goes up. I'm not sure if it's programming, lack of female authority, or if there's some thing in his mind that's set him this way you know kids reasoning for things can be differnt from an adults. Every day she's home he's more aggressive, quick tempered, and lashes out. No matter how nice and affectionate she tries to be to him. It's deffinately her presence. I know she's never done anything to warrant this behavior but after spending so much one on one time with him over the last two months, it's obvious how different his behavior is from litterally one minute to the next...from when she's in the room to when she's not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="w_woody, post: 296369, member: 7714"] Jumped the gun a bit...after a good week D slipped a bit today. Nothing horrible but it was deffinately triggered by my wife's presence. Anytime she comes near him he gets aggressive, I also noticed he does this with his BM and BGM because he got aggressive around them as well during his birthday visitation. Today he pushed our 2 year old down with his foot after my wife entered the living room, while I was in the kitchen for no reason. Later he became upset and lashed out while we where at a local park threatening to kick another child in the head...I told him to sit down and cool off...but the second my back was turned he hoped up and tried to run off. I didn't have to chase him, because I warned him that if I did the consequences would be severe. He stopped and sat down. These behaviors always occur when he knows I can't see or thinks I can't see him. He's fine as long as my wife is not in the room, but when she's around him his tension level goes up. I'm not sure if it's programming, lack of female authority, or if there's some thing in his mind that's set him this way you know kids reasoning for things can be differnt from an adults. Every day she's home he's more aggressive, quick tempered, and lashes out. No matter how nice and affectionate she tries to be to him. It's deffinately her presence. I know she's never done anything to warrant this behavior but after spending so much one on one time with him over the last two months, it's obvious how different his behavior is from litterally one minute to the next...from when she's in the room to when she's not. [/QUOTE]
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