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<blockquote data-quote="HighlyStressed" data-source="post: 494564" data-attributes="member: 13508"><p>Actually, big sis was 18 at prom and took the guys to a motel room. But yes, I can't begin to imagine what Molly has been exposed to - no pun intended. </p><p></p><p>A big problem I have is my mother believing the girls are perfectly normal and that I just don't get teens. My brother is with her. They live 3 states away and interfere every chance they get. Both are teachers (mom is retired) and </p><p>and both are pushy in what they think is right. </p><p></p><p>Is it 'normal teen' to wet the bed at 16? And lay on it by choice?</p><p>To steal my jewelry and tools (I am a contractor and need them to make a living).</p><p> To hide dirty dishes and used san. pads in a hole in the wall where she peeled back the drywall? </p><p>To steal money from the bank and deny it to the cops when they say they have her on camera doing it? (It must be some other little girl she said to them.) </p><p>To tell me she will lie to me/steal from me whenever the urge strikes her because her wants and needs are so much more important to her than mine? </p><p>To call DSS in every county in this part of the state and lie on me? </p><p>To kill/steal my pets?</p><p> </p><p>There is so much more.... </p><p></p><p>When she robbed the bank I considered allowing the cops to put her in JDC. Among other options. My family classified me as 'despicable' for even considering that an option and I have been the bad guy ever since. My own mother has $$$ and has gone so far as to threaten to go to court to take my kids if I don't follow her advice on a perenting issue and/or disinherit me. She has told me they are materialistic enough that she can 'buy them right out from under me." They text her to say I am mean cause they have to clean their room and want to go to a friends or something and mother would call me at work screaming and yelling. When it would be my turn to talk she'd just hang up. REAL piece of work. Thankfully, I am adopted. </p><p></p><p>After all these years of M's defiance, disrespect, sense of entitlement and meanness I am hopeful to make some rogress with her in therapy. I am afraid I will wind up resenting her. I must admit to resenting J. Thankfully I didn't feel that way until after she left.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HighlyStressed, post: 494564, member: 13508"] Actually, big sis was 18 at prom and took the guys to a motel room. But yes, I can't begin to imagine what Molly has been exposed to - no pun intended. A big problem I have is my mother believing the girls are perfectly normal and that I just don't get teens. My brother is with her. They live 3 states away and interfere every chance they get. Both are teachers (mom is retired) and and both are pushy in what they think is right. Is it 'normal teen' to wet the bed at 16? And lay on it by choice? To steal my jewelry and tools (I am a contractor and need them to make a living). To hide dirty dishes and used san. pads in a hole in the wall where she peeled back the drywall? To steal money from the bank and deny it to the cops when they say they have her on camera doing it? (It must be some other little girl she said to them.) To tell me she will lie to me/steal from me whenever the urge strikes her because her wants and needs are so much more important to her than mine? To call DSS in every county in this part of the state and lie on me? To kill/steal my pets? There is so much more.... When she robbed the bank I considered allowing the cops to put her in JDC. Among other options. My family classified me as 'despicable' for even considering that an option and I have been the bad guy ever since. My own mother has $$$ and has gone so far as to threaten to go to court to take my kids if I don't follow her advice on a perenting issue and/or disinherit me. She has told me they are materialistic enough that she can 'buy them right out from under me." They text her to say I am mean cause they have to clean their room and want to go to a friends or something and mother would call me at work screaming and yelling. When it would be my turn to talk she'd just hang up. REAL piece of work. Thankfully, I am adopted. After all these years of M's defiance, disrespect, sense of entitlement and meanness I am hopeful to make some rogress with her in therapy. I am afraid I will wind up resenting her. I must admit to resenting J. Thankfully I didn't feel that way until after she left. [/QUOTE]
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