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Nightmare--An Update from DaisyFace
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 279147" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so sorry. It is so hard to know that your child needs help, that your whole family needs it and the help cannot be had because someone forgot to tell you the vocabulary that is needed. </p><p></p><p>FWIW, often if you have to return to a hospital within a certain # of days from discharge for the problems you were in the hospital for, you can get out of paying the copays for the stay. Do a double check on your insurance for htis. As high as copays can be this helped us. It can apply to medical and psychiatric admits, depending on your policy.</p><p></p><p>I would take her back by calling for transport the moment she starts raging or being violent. You already know she isn't going to control herself. </p><p></p><p>Make sure you do NOT walk on eggshells around her. Give her chores, cut her privileges, whatever will work that is within the normal boundaries for your family. </p><p></p><p> I think your goal, for HER sake, needs to be to get her admitted again soon. You know that she is hurting. No one truly wants to drive everyone away from them. It goes against our very biology.</p><p></p><p>Make sure, when you admit her, that they know you want a placement. NOT just a release with a psychiatrist appointment scheduled. If they try to discharge her to you, refuse to take her. Insist that the family is not SAFE if she comes home, that SHE is not safe.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry, I know how hard your situation is.</p><p></p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 279147, member: 1233"] I am so sorry. It is so hard to know that your child needs help, that your whole family needs it and the help cannot be had because someone forgot to tell you the vocabulary that is needed. FWIW, often if you have to return to a hospital within a certain # of days from discharge for the problems you were in the hospital for, you can get out of paying the copays for the stay. Do a double check on your insurance for htis. As high as copays can be this helped us. It can apply to medical and psychiatric admits, depending on your policy. I would take her back by calling for transport the moment she starts raging or being violent. You already know she isn't going to control herself. Make sure you do NOT walk on eggshells around her. Give her chores, cut her privileges, whatever will work that is within the normal boundaries for your family. I think your goal, for HER sake, needs to be to get her admitted again soon. You know that she is hurting. No one truly wants to drive everyone away from them. It goes against our very biology. Make sure, when you admit her, that they know you want a placement. NOT just a release with a psychiatrist appointment scheduled. If they try to discharge her to you, refuse to take her. Insist that the family is not SAFE if she comes home, that SHE is not safe. I am sorry, I know how hard your situation is. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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