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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 378827" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Hey, Susie- I'm sorry it has come to this with your bro but I'm not surprised. State laws must differ a lot on how to stop contact and what is allowed to proceed with a RO so I'm glad you got advice from a policeman first. Here, I cannot stop any mail flow without a RO, which can only be issued by a judge after determining that a person's life or serious well-being is in jeopardy. I hope this works for you but be prepared just in case it spurs on more koi. My bro still sends cards to difficult child 3-4 times a year and they all say the exact same thing- he can't stand not having contact, please call, here's the phone number. Since difficult child hasn't called in over 3 years, says he wants nothing to do with my bro (unless he's in trouble with me and PO and facing incarceration and "planning" to run away to a place where he can hide out- and then difficult child only says that to me), and never asks about my bro or contacting him, I toss them now. I think people have to have enough sense to realize that when things like this- both my and your case- the bros have figured out that we mean it and only continue this stuff to be passive aggressive or to instigate more. Unfortunately, your bro lives too close to you to just be able to toss correspondence and otherwise ignore it. I hope for everyone's sake that your bro will back off and you can get to a point where there are only minimal, distant "efforts" that you can easily overlook and shrug off.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 378827, member: 3699"] Hey, Susie- I'm sorry it has come to this with your bro but I'm not surprised. State laws must differ a lot on how to stop contact and what is allowed to proceed with a RO so I'm glad you got advice from a policeman first. Here, I cannot stop any mail flow without a RO, which can only be issued by a judge after determining that a person's life or serious well-being is in jeopardy. I hope this works for you but be prepared just in case it spurs on more koi. My bro still sends cards to difficult child 3-4 times a year and they all say the exact same thing- he can't stand not having contact, please call, here's the phone number. Since difficult child hasn't called in over 3 years, says he wants nothing to do with my bro (unless he's in trouble with me and PO and facing incarceration and "planning" to run away to a place where he can hide out- and then difficult child only says that to me), and never asks about my bro or contacting him, I toss them now. I think people have to have enough sense to realize that when things like this- both my and your case- the bros have figured out that we mean it and only continue this stuff to be passive aggressive or to instigate more. Unfortunately, your bro lives too close to you to just be able to toss correspondence and otherwise ignore it. I hope for everyone's sake that your bro will back off and you can get to a point where there are only minimal, distant "efforts" that you can easily overlook and shrug off. [/QUOTE]
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