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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 378861" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I have been told that here it is for anyone who continues to contact you in a way that inflicts harm, physical or emotional or other, onto you or your children. The fact that he has been told several times not to contact us, that he came over after we refused to celebrate jessie's birthday with him and used a ruse to get thank you and Jess to open the door (in late July), and then this time came over and came inside when we did not respond to his ringing the bell was enough to prove to a judge that he does not respect us regarding contact with our children, that he will walk in even when he knows he is unwelcome AND that he does not hesitate to use his own child to scheme his way into whatever he wants so the judges here would grant a RO. If children were not involved it would be different, but still if someone persistently trespasses on your property there is a no trespass order that says that if they come onto your property for any reason, including invitation by the person who filed for the order, they get much much heavier penalties. If you are the homeowner and want to have them legally on your property before the order expires then you have to go before a judge or the person can still be charged. </p><p> </p><p>The kids and I wrote up a safety plan this summer after bro attacked again and we tweaked it after he came by with J's unwelcome birthday gifts. I had them rehearse it a few days before my birthday, just in case. We will rehearse again around Halloween because I think my letter will be taken as a challenge.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 378861, member: 1233"] I have been told that here it is for anyone who continues to contact you in a way that inflicts harm, physical or emotional or other, onto you or your children. The fact that he has been told several times not to contact us, that he came over after we refused to celebrate jessie's birthday with him and used a ruse to get thank you and Jess to open the door (in late July), and then this time came over and came inside when we did not respond to his ringing the bell was enough to prove to a judge that he does not respect us regarding contact with our children, that he will walk in even when he knows he is unwelcome AND that he does not hesitate to use his own child to scheme his way into whatever he wants so the judges here would grant a RO. If children were not involved it would be different, but still if someone persistently trespasses on your property there is a no trespass order that says that if they come onto your property for any reason, including invitation by the person who filed for the order, they get much much heavier penalties. If you are the homeowner and want to have them legally on your property before the order expires then you have to go before a judge or the person can still be charged. The kids and I wrote up a safety plan this summer after bro attacked again and we tweaked it after he came by with J's unwelcome birthday gifts. I had them rehearse it a few days before my birthday, just in case. We will rehearse again around Halloween because I think my letter will be taken as a challenge. [/QUOTE]
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