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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 378873" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Hang on - does your father come before the safety of your kids? And of your safety?</p><p></p><p>This is between you and bro. It has nothing to do with your parents, if you and bro are having problems. You have tried to tell them of the problems, if they don't want to hear it or if they will only hear bro's side of things - well, then, now we know who has been enabling bro all this time!</p><p></p><p>The no contact letter will be enough to upset your parents, if they refuse to accept that bro is causing distress to you and your children. Any parents who would want you to not complain, to just put up with it, to not make waves - they do not have your best welfare at heart. They have his desires at heart primarily.</p><p></p><p>If they give you grief, tell them it is between you and bro, and he should not be running to them to complain. Instead, he should man up and change his behaviour. If your parents had done their job (or accepted that despite doing their job, he still is not perfect) then you wouldn't be in this mess.</p><p></p><p>This is not their concern. Bro has to back off and obey the law. They should not take sides. You're not asking them to cut off contact with bro; you're only asking them to arrange matters so you and he don't have to meet.</p><p></p><p>Bro uses his daughter to try to manipulate you. But if your actions in getting the police involved is going to have your parents upset and trying to work on you, then they are doing the same thing as bro - using affection and being pleased with you as currency. Manipulation.</p><p></p><p>Gee, where did bro learn this?</p><p></p><p>Don't allow it. Stand firm. It's about time someone did.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 378873, member: 1991"] Hang on - does your father come before the safety of your kids? And of your safety? This is between you and bro. It has nothing to do with your parents, if you and bro are having problems. You have tried to tell them of the problems, if they don't want to hear it or if they will only hear bro's side of things - well, then, now we know who has been enabling bro all this time! The no contact letter will be enough to upset your parents, if they refuse to accept that bro is causing distress to you and your children. Any parents who would want you to not complain, to just put up with it, to not make waves - they do not have your best welfare at heart. They have his desires at heart primarily. If they give you grief, tell them it is between you and bro, and he should not be running to them to complain. Instead, he should man up and change his behaviour. If your parents had done their job (or accepted that despite doing their job, he still is not perfect) then you wouldn't be in this mess. This is not their concern. Bro has to back off and obey the law. They should not take sides. You're not asking them to cut off contact with bro; you're only asking them to arrange matters so you and he don't have to meet. Bro uses his daughter to try to manipulate you. But if your actions in getting the police involved is going to have your parents upset and trying to work on you, then they are doing the same thing as bro - using affection and being pleased with you as currency. Manipulation. Gee, where did bro learn this? Don't allow it. Stand firm. It's about time someone did. Marg [/QUOTE]
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