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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 379271" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Good for you, Susie. It can't be easy.</p><p></p><p>I knew you had already sent the letter and were planning on following through. What I was responding to, was how much it seemed to be upsetting you, that your father would be upset about this. And I was also upset that your father WOULD be more upset by yo taking action, than by what your bro has been doing. For you to be so concerned about your father's opinion was telling me that you have been downtrodden and put-upon for far too long.</p><p></p><p>I hope there are no nasty repercussions. But if there are, do NOT blame yourself of let anyone else blame you. If bro had behaved himself, you would not have been forced to this extreme. And if your father had stepped in and told bro to back off and leave you alone, you would not have felt so unsupported, you would not be concerned now about what your father will say, and maybe it needn't have come to this.</p><p></p><p>Your kids are now getting a very strong message, that their mother will keep them safe even if it means making very difficult and potentially painful decisions.</p><p></p><p>Susie, good for you. I know I said it already, but I can't say it enough.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 379271, member: 1991"] Good for you, Susie. It can't be easy. I knew you had already sent the letter and were planning on following through. What I was responding to, was how much it seemed to be upsetting you, that your father would be upset about this. And I was also upset that your father WOULD be more upset by yo taking action, than by what your bro has been doing. For you to be so concerned about your father's opinion was telling me that you have been downtrodden and put-upon for far too long. I hope there are no nasty repercussions. But if there are, do NOT blame yourself of let anyone else blame you. If bro had behaved himself, you would not have been forced to this extreme. And if your father had stepped in and told bro to back off and leave you alone, you would not have felt so unsupported, you would not be concerned now about what your father will say, and maybe it needn't have come to this. Your kids are now getting a very strong message, that their mother will keep them safe even if it means making very difficult and potentially painful decisions. Susie, good for you. I know I said it already, but I can't say it enough. Marg [/QUOTE]
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