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<blockquote data-quote="neajle" data-source="post: 285706" data-attributes="member: 1318"><p>She is really pregnant. The first time that he came here with her, they stayed at our house for 6 months, we supported her and him. When she got pregnant, I was not thrilled, but I thought well we'll make the best of the situation. As soon as she got pregnant she told him that she wanted to go back home, that is the first time that he left.</p><p></p><p>I am sure that she was faking these episodes so that he would rush back and that is finally what he did. She couldn't figure out any other way to get him to go back. He actually told her that he needed to take a break from the relationship until he got better, but she wouldn't have that. She told him, she didn't care if he was better or not, she wanted him back!</p><p></p><p>No, she is not cutting and neither is he anymore. He did this just that one time, I believe it was a cry for help. I think he felt trapped and didn't know what to do. The whole situation is so hopeless. I think that I would feel better if he had stayed here long enough to get situated on a medication and felt like he could make rational decisions. Then if he chose to go back to her, it would be easier for me to understand, because I can't tell him who to love and I know that.</p><p></p><p>Most of her own family will not have anything to do with her. She had convinced me, when she was here, that they were the bad ones, not her. </p><p></p><p>Today has been a really hard day. I know that I will eventually feel better, but not if he calls and tells me how awful he feels, because there is nothing I can do about it.</p><p></p><p>We were the ones to pay his way back and forth, except this last time, when I refused to do it any more. That is when he borrowed the money from a friend.</p><p></p><p>Thanks</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="neajle, post: 285706, member: 1318"] She is really pregnant. The first time that he came here with her, they stayed at our house for 6 months, we supported her and him. When she got pregnant, I was not thrilled, but I thought well we'll make the best of the situation. As soon as she got pregnant she told him that she wanted to go back home, that is the first time that he left. I am sure that she was faking these episodes so that he would rush back and that is finally what he did. She couldn't figure out any other way to get him to go back. He actually told her that he needed to take a break from the relationship until he got better, but she wouldn't have that. She told him, she didn't care if he was better or not, she wanted him back! No, she is not cutting and neither is he anymore. He did this just that one time, I believe it was a cry for help. I think he felt trapped and didn't know what to do. The whole situation is so hopeless. I think that I would feel better if he had stayed here long enough to get situated on a medication and felt like he could make rational decisions. Then if he chose to go back to her, it would be easier for me to understand, because I can't tell him who to love and I know that. Most of her own family will not have anything to do with her. She had convinced me, when she was here, that they were the bad ones, not her. Today has been a really hard day. I know that I will eventually feel better, but not if he calls and tells me how awful he feels, because there is nothing I can do about it. We were the ones to pay his way back and forth, except this last time, when I refused to do it any more. That is when he borrowed the money from a friend. Thanks [/QUOTE]
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