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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 560250" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Thank you. You are right that talking to him won't do much to fix anything. I have a feeling that some day in the future he will realize how his actions and perceptions have been manipulated by those who are not his father and I. All that we have EVER wanted is for him to be a healthy productive member of society who does not have to worry about criminal consequences for his actions and who is pursuing whatever interests make him happy. IOW, we only want what is best for him.</p><p></p><p>I thought I had worked through a lot of this, and it was a shock to have it all hurt so incredibly when I read his messages. I have zero idea why he thinks I am powerful enough to change my niece's lifestyle enough to prevent her from becoming more morbidly obese. even wehn I was on what for us was good terms, I had zero influence other than if I spoke highly of something then it was the most awful and unhealthy thing in the world for her. </p><p></p><p>I guess maybe knowing he thinks I am soooooooo powerful is something. not sure what. </p><p></p><p>Thanks for listening and for the advice. maybe in a decade or two we can start some type of relationship. If he will even acknowledge my existence after his siblings are adults.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 560250, member: 1233"] Thank you. You are right that talking to him won't do much to fix anything. I have a feeling that some day in the future he will realize how his actions and perceptions have been manipulated by those who are not his father and I. All that we have EVER wanted is for him to be a healthy productive member of society who does not have to worry about criminal consequences for his actions and who is pursuing whatever interests make him happy. IOW, we only want what is best for him. I thought I had worked through a lot of this, and it was a shock to have it all hurt so incredibly when I read his messages. I have zero idea why he thinks I am powerful enough to change my niece's lifestyle enough to prevent her from becoming more morbidly obese. even wehn I was on what for us was good terms, I had zero influence other than if I spoke highly of something then it was the most awful and unhealthy thing in the world for her. I guess maybe knowing he thinks I am soooooooo powerful is something. not sure what. Thanks for listening and for the advice. maybe in a decade or two we can start some type of relationship. If he will even acknowledge my existence after his siblings are adults. [/QUOTE]
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